Is it normal i feel entitled to cheat on my husband?

I am a 22 year old woman, and I was raised with certain entitlement. I feel like I am entitled to cheat on my husband before he cheats on me.

Is it normal to feel entitled to what I want, since that is how I was raised?

No, no one cheats these days. 21
Yes, but only when he cheats on you first 8
Yes, all men cheat, let's face the facts 3
Yes, you are entitled to cheat on your husband 8
No, you are not entitled to cheat, but you can if you want. 52
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Comments ( 35 )
  • paramore93

    If there's no trust in your relationship, you probably shouldn't be in a relationship.

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    • Mad333a

      True dat

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  • RaggedyandDandy

    Not cool. If a person can't be loyal in a relationship (friendship or love), they might as well not bother with a relationship at all. No one should be betrayed and hurt like that.

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  • RoseIsabella

    No, you are not entitled to cheat, dumb ass. Cheating is for shitty skank-hoes. Don't be a shitty skank-ho!

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  • DoctorPunk

    An entitled childhood is the worst preparation there is for life. You will never succeed. You'll be a high price escort by age 30, and a diseased piece of flesh by age 40. You'll spend your money foolishly, and be homeless by age 55. Your attitude has already sealed your fate, too bad.

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  • Pumpurrnickel

    All these options are shit. What's more worrying than the post itself is the number of people who voted.

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    • nikkiclaire

      Or who took the time to comment, or make this post up, eh recluded 😋

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      • Pumpurrnickel

        No. Most of the comments are fine.

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    • Sly2uc

      Agreed. There was not a spot to check that said cheating is wrong, period.

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  • ellenPawface

    You can feel entitled to smash your car into a school bus filled with special children. It still won't change the outcome for you.

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  • SammyStarts

    You aren't entitled to anything. Especially to cheat. Cheating is terrible. Get therapy. That's like saying I'm entitled to steal.

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  • Caspersghost

    This assumes he would cheat at all. If he never does you are simply unfaithful. If you believe he absolutely will maybe divorce and find a husband you think is faithful.

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  • lonewolf1253

    You don't sound like you were ready to get married. If your not thru playing the field, marriage is the last thing you should have done. Too late now. Do what you feel is right because I doubt anyone here can change the way you think.

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  • Mark92

    Cheating is never justifiable, do not accuse of him cheating on you without any proof, and if he does cheat on you ditch him and get someone better. We don't bite back a snake if it bites us...

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  • Blahblah48

    It is not normal to feel entitled to anything you want. That’s actually called being a SPOILED brat. It’s also horrible that you want to cheat on your husband. Sounds like you have zero self respect. I feel sorry for him, you surely don’t deserve to be in a relationship, or even married for that matter.

    By the way, your voting options are so demented. I refuse to partake in your insanity.

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  • Boojum

    So do you also believe that men who were raised to beat, rape and psychologically abuse women are entitled to do that too?

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  • Bailey_Rose

    That is what is wrong with this generation right now! A bunch of self entitled fuckers with no morals, no work ethic, no RESPECT, no LOYALTY. Pull your mother's golden tit out of your mouth and lost that entitlement attitude. No all men are cheaters. Not all women are cheaters. And the fact that you feel you should just because you were raised like that....speaks volumes for the piss poor way your parent(s) raised you. If that is going to be your attitude you might as well just file for divorce now. I feel so sorry for your unknowing husband.

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    • nikkiclaire

      It's not the generation, of which, I am part of. It's this dumb bitch.

      No one ever told ME I was entitled to anything. In fact they said "congrats, you are the first american generation that will be worse off than your parents".

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    • Ellenna

      This is one person, not an entire generaton: settle down!

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    • curious-bunny

      Yea bro not the generation. Some of us actually have good work ethic and good morals. Personally I'm a lazy son of a bitch at home but at work I work my ass off and earn my wages. That's why I could never do a desk jokey job, I would go crazy and probably shoot someone I need to be active, god I can't wait to bed a diver, anyways it's the bitch op that's the problem

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  • nikkiclaire

    Is it still "til death do us part"?

    If it is he is entitled to kill you if you do. Hope the sex is good.

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    • Ellenna

      NOoone is entitled to kill someone else for cheating!

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      • nikkiclaire

        Toungue in cheek.

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  • Biman458

    Statistics say women cheat more then men. I personally would love to see my wife fuck other men.

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  • footfreak

    My current wife informed me she has sex with whom she wants and when she wants before we married!

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  • debil

    do that hunny

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  • NoShameInLife

    Give me them digits and I can help you better with it

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  • Annie25

    Did you just marry to cheat First?!

    You're saying that you were raised like that? That marriage is just where both compete who cheats first?

    What the absolute fuck
    Lmaoooooo

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  • _confused_

    You're not entitled to anything you spoiled weirdo

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  • Babygirl17

    NO DON'T CHEAT ON HIM!!!!! If he cheats on you it just means he's a cold hearted jerk! You don't want that reputation do you?

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  • Shackleford96

    Is this really about you or are you just trying to bait us into saying what you want to hear?

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  • I have heard this before. The answer is no, you are not entitled. There is no such thing as entitlement to cheat. You have two options:

    1) Being loyal: Is good for both you and your husband, risk-free and leads to long-term happiness

    2) Cheating: Good only for you (better than #1, and that is why it is listed here), bad for your husband and toxic for your relationship. Risky and irreversible. You can get away with it, but it may have other effects, such as stress from hiding it.

    Nobody can tell you which option to pick, because this depends on a lot of factors in your relationship (and beyond it), so you can choose whichever you prefer. But regardless of your choice, it is nonsensical to mix them up and say you pick the "bad" (so-called bad but it depends) option and pretend it's the "good" one. That means you cannot understand what you are doing and you don't know what to expect, and this leads to unhappiness.

    You can choose the second option and you can say "I cheat because I want to feel good, but I am aware that it's bad for the relationship". But you can't say "I cheat because I am entitled so I know it's bad but I lie to myself that it's good". It doesn't make any sense.

    The second option may sometimes be justified by other factors such as being already cheated on, or being unhappy and forced to stay in a relationship or so, and you might want to give a reason to it or simply do it because of the sexual desire, which at least makes sense. But cheating purely because there is a chance for him to cheat is totally absurd. In the same way he should do the same and that's how you ruined the relationship without even having a reason for it.

    Think about your choice before you make it. Are you a good liar? Are you good at handling stress? Does it make you feel better? Do you want a long-lasting and/or stable relationship, or a way to have fun and play risky games? Make sure you know exactly what you're doing and why. That kind of thinking mixes things up completely so you can get caught very easily, which is bad if you picked #2.

    I noticed that people who have this kind of thinking and encourage others to do it are suffering from being cheated on. This determines them to reach such a conclusion. This is a clue that they are acting impulsively and the conclusion is biased. What they could say correctly instead is: "I cheat because I was cheated on and I want it fair". This is logical, although not favourable if you ask me. But cheating because I am entitled to is incorrect in any situation simply because it doesn't make sense. It's like saying: "I am entitled to do anything I want because I might be a victim one day. So I am entitled to kill, rape, steal or anything else I want".

    Do whatever you want, but assume it properly and make sure you are fully aware of what you do, if you want to be happy with your choice. And, of course, think about the consequences. Will it make you actually obtain what you want? Will you be able to face the worst-case scenario (being caught)? Are you just using it as an excuse, while we all know the reason (lust)? If yes, why are you still using such an ineffective excuse? Answer all the possible questions before making a move. Being cautious is always good.

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  • Handyman

    This sounds like some political parties. "We want"!

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  • redrainbow22

    You have trust issues

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  • Nickvey

    as long as its my spunk you are chugging , fuck yea its ok.

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