Is it normal i don't want to have sex with him because..

I don't moan during sex because it makes me feel really uncomfortable and I told him that I felt ashamed at myself because I'm not more vocal. My friend said that I was silent and motionless and that he was used to girls who give a little more feedback and now it just makes me feel so insecured that I don't want to have sex with him anymore. He didn't say it in a mean tone or anything.

Is It Normal?
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  • You come off as extremely immature. He's being honest with you in an attempt to better your love life. How about you talk to him and maintain an open dialogue like an adult?

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  • silent and motionless, wow you must be a hot fuck.

    A wank is probably more fun than having sex with you.

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    • im guessing she's English, the phrase "lie back and think of England" springs to mind lol.

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      • English girls no longer lay back and think of England. They're proper little skanks now and will pounce on any available dick

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    • Lol! A wank! England, Or Scottish slang. Love it!

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  • I love this quote which unfortunately can't be traced across the internet back to the originator;

    "Stop faking your orgasms. Society already tells young men that they run the fucking universe - if they can't turn your cunt into a shooting star then for God's sake, let them know about it."

    Gay bottoms, the same goes for you. Let these tops know if they just aren't hitting it.

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    • I love that you included a part about the gay bottoms hahaha it's so true though, if you don't give accurate feedback with moans and stuff it's not gonna get any better

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  • i generally like it when the girl make quiet breathy noises. dont force it, its annoying. moan when he cums though

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  • That's not bloody well normal...

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  • Selfish bitch!!

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  • Silent is one thing, motionless is another: if you expect the bloke to always do all the work in sex who would stick around with such a lazy ungiving person?

    You're lucky he brought up this issue in an honest and it seems unjudgmental way: now you need to respond as an adult and talk about your own feelings and why you are self-conscious during sex.

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