IIN I don't think women who date transwomen can be considered lesbians?

Definitely trolling. we arent talking about trans people here. we are talking about the men who think identifying as trans entitles them to lesbian pussy. now you could say, oh thats just anectodal. but 'TERF' is a well established epithet used for mass scale gasslighting and guess what, it's only used against women. i'll throw you a bone and say there are actually some attractive + mentally feminine transwomen but they are increasingly rare, i can only think of 1 off hand. the point is that rape is not feminine, look at statistics. so whoever thinks their dick belongs in a lesbian is not a woman. and how is it not narcissistic to demand everyone play into your obsession with your own body image?