Is it normal i don't care about gender
I have aspergers so that might play a factor in my disconnection with gender, but I honestly just don't get why people have a need to gender everything, even objects which aren't even alive. I'm not masculine or feminine, I do my own thing and I find that a lot of people seem to be displeased at it, lecturing me that since I have a specific genital I should act/look/dress more like that gender, but honestly I find that really stupid.
People shouldn't be forced or looked down on just because they don't conform to that genders normal stereotype, otherwise we'd all be the same and that would be pretty boring.
I also dislike gendering objects and such, for example just because something has ribbons on it that means it's feminine, but why? It's a piece of fabric.
I just get confused about how so many people think each gender should stick to their own specific gendered thing that's been picked out, and get upset when someone decides to do something different.