Well it still sounds unresolved, like you can't make a decision, like you are conflicted. So listen to your instinct, your nudges, and do what they tell you. I'm not a fan of lying or making an excuse. $20 sounds like an amount you can afford so don't lie, but if it goes against every grain of your soul, it will haunt you, make you feel ill, and if you do it anyway, it will cost you more than $20 worth. If on the other hand, just paying the $20, driving an hour to play golf, and sucking it up seems like it's the path of least damage and least resistance, then choose that one. I've been in this situation many times. I have chosen to succumb to many of them against my gut feeling. Now that I have a pretty clear idea about how it makes me feel afterwards, I won't do it anymore. It's up to you. Maybe you need to figure out what feels good to you and make the adjustments based on experience. Come back later and tell us what you did, how you felt, and how it went.
IIN I don’t really want to pitch in for my supervisors Christmas gift?
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Well it still sounds unresolved, like you can't make a decision, like you are conflicted. So listen to your instinct, your nudges, and do what they tell you. I'm not a fan of lying or making an excuse. $20 sounds like an amount you can afford so don't lie, but if it goes against every grain of your soul, it will haunt you, make you feel ill, and if you do it anyway, it will cost you more than $20 worth. If on the other hand, just paying the $20, driving an hour to play golf, and sucking it up seems like it's the path of least damage and least resistance, then choose that one. I've been in this situation many times. I have chosen to succumb to many of them against my gut feeling. Now that I have a pretty clear idea about how it makes me feel afterwards, I won't do it anymore. It's up to you. Maybe you need to figure out what feels good to you and make the adjustments based on experience. Come back later and tell us what you did, how you felt, and how it went.