Is it normal i do bondage like this?
More often then not, iI will surprise my boyfriend when he comes home or in the morning or whenever he is most caught off guard, and I will tie him up against his will. Now I do use safe words when doing this, and I know how to properly tie/ don't purposefully cut off circulation, and if he is in any pain, i will fix it or just stop. Usually though he doesnt 'like' it and will use the signal to try to tell me to stop. The only way I will stop is if I am hurting him physically. When I do this, the beginning he is all mad/panicking/ scared per se, but towards the end he is enjoying every bit as much as I am. Is it normal for him to be like this?