Is it normal i cheat on my husband because i thought he was cheating on me?

I thought my husband was cheating on me with my neighbor lady, so I got mad and cheated on my husband.

Come to find out last week, the reason my husband was spending so much time with her was they were planning a surprise birthday party for me.

is it normal I feel like a slut for cheating on my husband?

No, you husband probably still cheated on you. 0
No, you husband cheated on you with someone else, so now you are even. 3
All men cheat sometimes, so perhaps you got ahead of yourself 7
You should of never cheated on your husband no matter what! 45
Yes, you are a slut. 55
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Comments ( 50 )
  • Pumpurrnickel

    Ask your husband if it's normal.

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  • Boojum

    Jeez, your life is just like a really unoriginal plotline from a crap American sitcom.

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  • McBean

    It's not any great loss to him. You are an unfaithful slut that will never be good enough for him anyway.

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  • RoseIsabella

    That's hella fucked up, but it also sounds like an episode of soime awful TV show.

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  • That's actually really stupid and immature.

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  • Dumbass.

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  • Sassafras77

    I love my man he is good to me ,I would never do him that way ,he will always have my back !!!

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    • Tiffany2016

      Guess again, Saddafra77

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    • There’s two guys on here named nick and ray, they feel the same way about their men. You are not alone sister.

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      • Sassafras77

        Omg u mean they are gay ,Omg !!!

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        • I wouldn’t know, but I believe they cheated on their under-endowed lovers because they were an honest reflection of their own manhood. I’ll leave it at that.

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  • Mark92

    Would you bite a dog if it bit you? the same case applies to your case. if your husband cheated on you he has a scum, you have every right to legally sue him and move on with someone better. But cheating on him if he cheats on you would have no effect and he could careless and carry on with his affairs and could use this as a point if you were to legally challenge him. In your case, it seems you did it out of extreme immaturity, but whats done cannot be undone (seriously, I wish life did have a undo button), so move on with your hubby if you love him, its your choice to let him no or keep it a secret. But in case of a real cheating, best thing to do is take legal steps and move on with someone better...

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    • IrishPotato

      How do you even sympathise with OP? She cheated on her husband. Never mind if he did or not, her cheating on him makes her an awful person! She has and never has had any rights to pursue legal actions.

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  • Dan13309

    You should have done some research first or at least asked him strait up.

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    • sararyan7242

      Do you really think he would of confessed if he was fucking the neighbor?

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      • Dan13309

        You can tell when someone is lieing

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      • Tiffany2016

        No, of course not...

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  • _confused_

    Pretend it never happened

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  • gregjm

    Sounds like the plot for a light romantic comedy.

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  • Lestat565

    Ever hear that two wrongs don’t make a right? Don’t cheat. And now that you have you don’t have the right to get mad at him if he does it. Unless you’re ok with being a hypocritical cunt.

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  • footfreak

    My wife is also a slut. I love her!

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  • Bigholeinone69

    It’s ok. I’d be happy to have a 3 some with both of you to work thru your issues with each other.

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  • IrishPotato

    It's not normal to cheat and you should be ashamed of yourself. Your husband deserves better than garbage like you.

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  • Honeypot2000

    Just saying if you thought that you should have ended the relationship. Cheating isn’t the answer. Although I’ve wanted to fuck so many different bitches I have never cheated on my wife. Although we roll play about it all the time.

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  • I guess I'm the oddball here, but I really don't get this "cheating" thing. It's JUST sex! My girlfriend and I are bisexual, and while we generally tell one another about having sex with someone else, I don't have that as an EXPECTATION, nor does she! If she finds someone special that she wants to have sex with and not tell me, that's HER choice! I'm fine with it and hope she is happy! IT'S JUST SEX!

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    • Brownbear

      I feel the same way I have laid om my side facing her will another man spooned her all night I watched her cum and heard him cum over and over. It is very secy

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  • jennabenna514

    This is going to bite you in the butt if he really didn’t cheat on you. Either way, it’s sick.

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  • sararyan7242

    I think you jumped the gun on this one based solely on what you said, but it is possible he cheated too... Hard to say for sure based on this info.

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    • I'm pretty sure he's cheated on me, I've read the texts...

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  • Yes, I liked it, of course, you nit wit. I just feel a little bad now..

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    • IrishPotato

      A LITTLE BAD?

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  • Not_normal_ash

    Stop making excuses , u just liked it

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  • MangoTango

    That story is brilliant! Keep this a secret, and tell your dear husband the story sometime 50+ years from now.

    Excuse me for seeing the humor.
    It feels like it should be a movie plot.

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    • sararyan7242

      For some reason, I think this one might be real... Truth is stranger than fiction...

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  • LionsMane

    To put it simply, two wrongs don't make a right.

    If this story is somehow real, you are highly immature and aren't ready for a real relationship.

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  • Goku19

    Funny options LOL! Why not ask him if he ever cheated or not pretending it doesn't matter to you and you know the nature of men.

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  • Gayathri

    Taking revenge is not a solution for anything. You could have been cleared your doubts before committing such blunter.

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  • Arrissot

    Just try not to cheat on him again, you seem like a jealous person, you might be over-thinking it

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  • Bushwhacker40

    Sorry but why are you even in a relationship? If that's your mentality then you should be single.

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  • itachi_uchiha

    Certainly not a slut coz it was just a little misunderstanding but still you shouldn't have done that

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    • You might want to think twice at this. If she was so hasty in cheating and not even considering this long enough to have some evidence it means she probably had the desire to do it and just needed a reason.

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  • nikkiclaire

    Wow that is messed up. What are you going to do?

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    • I guess keep it going, now that I did it once, why stop?

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  • Have your lover pop out of the cake.

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    • Sassafras77

      No Never ,we've been together almost 4 yrs ,and he don't believe in that !!!

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      • Do you mean “he doesn’t believe in that” or he “don’t”?
        Stupid and a troll is no way to go though life son.

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  • Nickvey

    if cheating on your man is the reason you cheated you have a mental illness. if you cheated because you found the experience irresistible you are normal. All men and all women cheat and the ones that have not just need more time or a set of balls.

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    • This statement might be too broad, I'd say.

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      • Nickvey

        the question was about cheating with mental illness

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        • I meant the last sentence

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