Is it normal i cant imagine myself in a sexual situation

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Im a virgin and I cant even imagine myself having sex.
It feels like something that is for a species I am not part of, like attempting to imagine myself pulling worms from the soil with a beak like birds do for food. Very highly bizarre.
Ive had many opportunities which I absolutely refused to take.
Ive been at guys places a few times and theyve made moves on me which i've politely declined.
I enjoyed making out heavily with one ex but it's all I did.
I dont want to feel like i'm missing out and I want to be part of the normal species of human on this planet but I don't know when it will happen that I will become part of it.

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Based on 20 votes (17 yes)
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  • Tinybird
    1 year ago

    I would say you were asexual apart from the enjoying making out. Maybe you're like me. I like the idea of having sex and making out with someone I have a crush on. However, when it came down to it, I think I'd be way too nervous and scared to have sex in real life, but I would like to make out. I guess I'm just afraid of sex. For obvious reasons. Like risk of pregnancy which leads to childbirth which is hell. So no I can't imagine myself having sex in real life.

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  • RoseIsabella
    1 year ago

    Save yourself for someone special who you love, and loves you.

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  • MonteMetcalfe
    1 year ago

    Young people place such an enormous amount of worry on losing their virginity. The first time will likely be both exciting and maybe even a little disappointing, maybe leave you wondering "is that all the hype is about?"

    The older you get you worry less about what "everyone else is doing" and focus more on what you enjoy or don't enjoy about sex. Some like alot of sex and often, while some don't have any interest in sex. It's all about you and satisfying your own needs rather than satisfying the perceived expectations of society.

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  • Orphan
    1 year ago

    Well dont do it if u dont want to

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  • Iambillythemenacetosociety
    1 year ago

    That's better than being a paraphilic fetishist people are nowadays.

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  • Tommythecaty
    1 year ago

    It’s just an enjoyable activity, no different to playing computer games, sport or getting drunk. It’s not something to be built up, overthought or afraid of.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    1 year ago

    Do you find people sexually attractive? There’s no right or wrong answer.

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