Is it normal i cant get this idiot to leave me alone

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I have this one friend from HS. We started talking again a few years out of Highschool was over. Everytime we hang out they try to have sex and I tell them I really dont want sex since they already have a partner. If I say no they try to force it. I gave them chances but I figured out they can not handle keeping their hands to themselves and so I now just ignore them. I recently blocked their phone number and so they started trying adding me on other sources like FB, text apps that go by phone number, and those sort of stuff. Would this count as stalking? I told them to leave me alone several times and then they cry and beg and they wont stop contacting me. I about ready to go to the police, but I feel like No I dont want sex should be enough to get them to leave me alone already.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago | pl

    It is stalking, but I doubt if the police would take any action unless you had evidence of every unwelcome contact and they thought you were in danger.

    I'd suggest giving him a strong ultimatum by text or email so you have evidence of it, and without getting into anything nasty, formally request him to stop contacting you in any way or you will be taking legal action.

    I hope that works.

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  • FORUMidableFucker
    7 years ago | pl

    That is stalking and sexual harassment.If you need evidence use the texts and record what time it is when they come over and even video it if you can. Weird ass fuckers, hurt them in self defense if they come back again;you have a right as it is defense on your land and you cannot be charged.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago | pl

    I think you ought to cut off all contact and find out about getting a restraining order. Continue to block this sorry ass creep. I'm sorry this is happening, I truly am! I had a stupid stalker in college, and it was a nightmare! Continue to stand your ground, don't give an inch and remember that tears are meaningless. Whatever he says or does or threatens to do please remember that you are not responsible for his emotional state! I hate stalkers!

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  • jtd279
    7 years ago | pl

    Why not just give them what they want. Then maybe they'll leave you alone. Don't have to fuck them, just give them blow jobs.

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