So yeah, my boyfriend and I kinda went through the same thing. He was really controlling and manipulative and very jealous of every time I was with a male friend for any occasion whatsoever and he'd act really cold and just.. I felt like a puppet. Anyway, I went to go break up with him because I was completely done being treated like shit and so I almost did but we ended up talking it out. We knew we loved each other and we were amazing together and we make each other happy, like you said in your post. He started working on it and it's so much better now, he gets jealous and snaps at me leas often... the point of this huge thing is to say maybe it'll work for you guys. Just try to talk it out and for us there was so much crying but we came out stronger than ever. If you guys are "meant to be" he should be able to realize how much he means to you and you to him and I'm not saying he should completely change, but just let him know how you really feel. Also, try to understand whatever reason he's acting the way he is, for me it was his jealousy, and get a better grasp on it. If you understand and change your way of thinking it can help out tremendously when you're thinking about how to "deal with it" when these situations come up.
I'm so sorry that this is so long, and I understand if you don't read this c:
Iin i cant decide if i want to stay or leave him?
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So yeah, my boyfriend and I kinda went through the same thing. He was really controlling and manipulative and very jealous of every time I was with a male friend for any occasion whatsoever and he'd act really cold and just.. I felt like a puppet. Anyway, I went to go break up with him because I was completely done being treated like shit and so I almost did but we ended up talking it out. We knew we loved each other and we were amazing together and we make each other happy, like you said in your post. He started working on it and it's so much better now, he gets jealous and snaps at me leas often... the point of this huge thing is to say maybe it'll work for you guys. Just try to talk it out and for us there was so much crying but we came out stronger than ever. If you guys are "meant to be" he should be able to realize how much he means to you and you to him and I'm not saying he should completely change, but just let him know how you really feel. Also, try to understand whatever reason he's acting the way he is, for me it was his jealousy, and get a better grasp on it. If you understand and change your way of thinking it can help out tremendously when you're thinking about how to "deal with it" when these situations come up.
I'm so sorry that this is so long, and I understand if you don't read this c: