Is it normal i can't get a guy

All of the girls on here seem to have no problem "slutting around" as they call it, but I have never even been able to get a guy to kiss me. I am 24 and never kissed a guy.

I would love to be a slut but no one wants me. I am skinny and my friend says I am cute so am I abnormal?

I even asked my friend to fuck me or let me blow him and he said no. What the hell is wrong with me.

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  • pendletonGibbs

    Where are these desperate lonely women who post here? Everyone within a 100 mile radius of me is married or otherwise unavailable.

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  • Tealights

    Being a slut is easy, but risky. Most men tend to like the novelty of slutty women (experienced in sex, sexually outgoing, revealing clothes, etc), but at the same time find them demeaning and dirty.

    If you love sex, then become a slut. If you're using sex to feel wanted or validate yourself, then don't become one. Becoming a slut to please others is like becoming a walking toilet, you won't get anything out of it except other people's shit.

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    • sararyan7242

      I disagree, you can be a slut without being dirty.

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      • Tealights

        You didn't fully understand my post. Read, don't skim.

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        • sararyan7242

          Wecoming a walking toilet is what I objected to. I read your post.

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          • Tealights

            "If you love sex, then become a slut. If you're using sex to feel wanted or validate yourself, then don't become one. Becoming a slut to please others is like becoming a walking toilet, you won't get anything out of it except other people's shit."

            Read the entire paragraph, and then brush up on that 3rd grade Reading Comprehension.

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            • nikkiclaire

              The guy in this thread that shits his pants and leaves it there is the walking toilet.

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  • JonathanOo

    I doubt it's your looks. Everyone wants to have sex or kiss you but its more likely they are afraid or timid about making it happen. I'm 100% positive if you created an account on a dating app and said your looking to kiss or do fun stuff with guys, you'd get a ton of hits. It's just in regular day to day interaction that when we see a pretty young girl we all expect her to be taken or not interested in us so we don't even try at all. Yes we will be polite but nothing pushy. As for your friend he probably doesn't want to screw anything up with you. Its best you stay patient and wait for someone, they won't mind learning with you

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  • Ummitsme

    Obvious troll. Men will fuck anything. Look at the Aussy aborigines.

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    • Ellenna

      What on earth do you mean about Australian Aboriginal women?

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      • Ummitsme

        Some of the least attractive.

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        • Poopusher5000

          Where u from I'm curious? But yep they are ugly but I also fucked a really hot one. I'm from oz so yeh its all good

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          • Melbourne

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        • Ellenna

          What rubbish! How about Cathie Freeman, Jessica Mauboy & plenty of others I could name?

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          • Ummitsme

            Jessica Mauboy is actually hot, I'd do her. The other chick looks like a dude. From 200,000 years ago. If thats the best you can come up with you've proved my point.

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            • Poopusher5000

              Actually yr right I'm from oz and FUK yeah their ugly. But I have also fucked hot ones. But majority of them are pretty fucked

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  • Cutie12345

    Well, it’s either looks or personality. Sorry to say this but it’s usually looks. Most guys will fuck anything lol but I mean did you only ask 1 guy to do stuff with? If you are outgoing, you should probably ask more guys but make sure you get to know them first and you have some sort of sexual attraction. I’m a pretty shy girl, but guys come up to me and I still get lots of sexual attention, so I’m not sure what’s happening.

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  • EmiLee91

    26 and same situation. People tell me that I'm pretty but guys just don't flirt with me.

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  • Benoit334

    Do u have an Instagram if yes add me benoit3344 we can get to know each other! :D

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  • Poopusher5000

    I've just hung another shit and it kinda reminded me of you I'll keep it in there so I can smell awful shit like yr self. And good luck with anyone buying u drinks. I'd buy ya one but I think a nice hot chick will be getting one before u and more xox

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  • Clappingpapperclips

    I’d gladly be your first kiss😊

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  • MrDexter

    I don't know enough about you to determine the problem. Perhaps it's your approach scaring thm off. What are your hobbies.

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  • Poopusher5000

    I shit my pants and leave it in there

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  • VetusRebellioIudaicum

    Say

    FRUCTUARI EST
    NON MALEDICTVM
    HAEC EST DIABOLICVM
    AVDACES VICTORIA IUVAT

    then spit on the ground before declaring: FIAT

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  • Nickvey

    gay friends dont cum in girls mouths, practice with a cousin like everyone does and lies about it.

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    • VetusRebellioIudaicum

      GIGGGIIIIIIITYYYYY
      GIGGITTTYYYYYYYYYY
      GIGGGGGGGGITTTTTTTYYYYYYYYY

      -I is watching thou

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  • bellomiss

    I am 22 and in the same position as you. People tell I am pretty but men don't seem to approach me/ask me out. I rarely get hit on too. I am shy though. I also feel like I can't get a guy.

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    • Thanks, it's nice to know I am not the only virgin in the world. It seems like I am.

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      • bellomiss

        Nope, you are not the only female to be virgin not by choice (although if I went looking online, I could probably loose my virginity. I have also never been catcalled in a sexual manner as well.

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    • Djgoku

      Share your Snapchat ID, maybe? :)

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  • Boojum

    Maybe your friend just values your friendship and didn't want to risk that? Sex between friends does tend to profoundly alter the dynamic, sometimes in not a good way. Maybe your friend has experience of that?

    I think women who are very average-looking can be extremely sexy. It's not so much about their clothes or makeup. Nice hair, healthy skin, and a cute smile all help, but it's more about attitude. If you give off an air of liking yourself - being comfortable in your own skin - and knowing that you're sexually desirable, people do pick up on that.

    You say you're happy to talk to guys, but it never goes further than that. You do understand that guys are generally pretty hopeless about picking up subtle signals of interest, right?

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  • paramore93

    Bare in mind people can be anybody they want to be on the internet, they could be guys and we'd never know ..
    Anyway give yourself time to find the right guy, it'll be much more special than getting with some random just because they're up for it ..

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    • Thanks, I guess they could be, but even the girls I went to school with had a bunch of boyfriends along the way.

      Guys will flirt with them right in front of me, and never even give me a second look.

      I guess I wanted a lot of exoerience before I meet the one. I don't want to learn how to kiss or have sex with the guy I fall in live with, you know? I want to be able to rock his world.

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  • I'd kiss you. I'd make sweet love to you in the moonlight, looking into your lovely, shining eyes, then kissing your burning lips and your soft neck, while smelling and playing with your hair. I'd rub your body gently, suck your nipples and go down on you while you're closing your eyes and enjoying it. I'd kiss your legs and feet, I'd grab them and push my love inside. Next time I'll tell you the rest.
    PS: Fuckboys are the worst choice for you. Their rejection doesn't have anything to do with yourself, but with their own ego, so this won't reveal anything about you, just about them. I'd recommend going for the opposite type of guy.

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    • Poopusher5000

      U ain't getting her u disparate dreamer its the Internet for fuk sake

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      • I never said I'm looking for that.

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        • Poopusher5000

          Matey u r weird

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          • Giggity

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    • VetusRebellioIudaicum

      (Certified "nice guy")

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  • CDmale4fem

    Are you nervous around guys ? Do you feel confident enough to approach a guy in a restaraunt, or bar ? You probably don't have any tendencies to want to make out with other women? Don't feel bad, years back after my buddy and I experimented with mm oral sex and he had initiated sitting his ass on my cock, so a month or 2 after that I had asked him if he would please fuck me in my ass. It never happened. I am STILL curious after about 25 years. I still want another hard cock in my mouth and I want to feel a cock in my ass.

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    • I would be with a woman but I would rather know what sex is like and I really want to give a man a blowjob.

      I don't approach strangers but I do smile at them and talk if they talk to me.

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      • sararyan7242

        Wear low cut tops and short skirts. Use Tinder app. Go to bars after 11pm. Certainly that should help you "slut around". You could also try escorting and see how that works for you.

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        • Thanks, I asked one of my friends if she take me to a bar this weekend, I am sooo sick of waiting and I am scared of internet guys. I doubt I could manage at Walmart.

          But she said she will help me so wish me luck.

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          • Tealights

            Use a condom, and get some birth control.

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            • Not needed. She got lucky, while I watched t.v. fml.

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      • Ellenna

        Just for your information, sex with a woman is SEX!

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        • By sex I mean I'd like to know what intercourse with a man is like. I'm also curious about giving a guy a blowjob, which I can't do with a woman.

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      • CDmale4fem

        So what do you think is the reason you are having a hard time finding a guy ? Do you feel you are to slender, hair to short, to long, complexion issues ? I'm not asking to be mean, I'm just trying to get an idea. Are you in the states, or another country ? On a scale of 1-10 10 is best, where would you rate yourself overall?

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  • Seahawksfan56

    Get to know the guy. Most guys in that age range will be turned off by something so purely physical. Its very simple. I've had women do that to me and as much as I would fantasize about it. In real life it's a turn off. I'd at least be nervous, and at most demeaned.

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    • But even girls that aren't cute have boyfriends. I have never seen a guy naked except in porn.

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    • Well I didn't ask him like that, I was nice about it haha.

      I'm not really shy but not outgoing either. I guess I look kinda plainish but not ugly I don't think.

      I even tried dating apps and never got a hit. Maybe I AM just ugly.

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      • Ginny05

        Hmu (8 on Instagram mchristiano1991

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      • bob7

        post a link for a pic and we can tell you our honest opinions ;)

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      • McBean

        Yes, something is wrong. But it is hard to know what it is without meeting you. As a start, why don't you search YouTube.com for "How to be comfortable in your skin."

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  • nikkiclaire

    Being a slut is fun but its much better to find that one special person. Hang in there. It will happen for you.

    Are you shy?

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    • sararyan7242

      She could try using the Tinder app. I bet she would get lots of action there and could even "slut around" awhile looking for that one special person.

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      • nikkiclaire

        I tried tinder for like 2 hours just to see once and got hit by way too many guys I shut the thing down. She should just go to Walmart.

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        • sararyan7242

          Walmart, that should work too, but if she can't get Tinder to help her "slut around", I'm not sure what else to try other than Walmart...

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          • nikkiclaire

            I wanna say how to pick up randoms but I kinda don't because I don't wanna lead her to trouble.

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            • sararyan7242

              If not she is going to fall in love with the first guy that fucks her, so think of it as a public service thing...

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            • sararyan7242

              You'd just be helping her to learn how to "slut around"

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          • nikkiclaire

            Tinder is scary.

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      • nikkiclaire

        One guy asked if I'd fuck his wife 😂

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    • bob7

      still waiting for that link ;)

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  • Your guy friend sounds like an ass or he wanted to protect the friendship? Why don’t you try online dating?
    Don’t be a slut, it’s in no way a compliment.

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  • LionsMane

    It's okay to not be a slut, you know??? Stop trying to be that person. That is what is abnormal

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    • sararyan7242

      There is nothing wrong with being a slut. Many of us are or have been sluts, or as the OP suggests, "Slutted Around"

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      • LionsMane

        You're an idiot

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