Is it normal i can't fall in love?

I am slightly annoyed at myself. I have been in many relationships in my life, and every single one of them I break up with them. Every time I have a crush on someone and I finally get to date them, I lose interest almost immediately and I have to break up with them. Even if the relationship is interesting I always realize I don't like them that way. I can never fully love someone. Help.

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73% Normal
Based on 15 votes (11 yes)
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  • Decorum

    Maybe you have some trust issues and are just scared thry eill leave you, so you leave them first?

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  • Boojum

    You're not going to get the answer to your question here, since any number of things could be causing your problem.

    Serious, honest introspection might get you some way towards figuring it out, but it might be faster to spend some time talking with a good counsellor.

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  • HeyItsRalph

    Why is it that such a complex situation such as this has a high percentage of normality? Simply because we are not in this alone. Granted, we don't ALL share the same sentiment, but someone out there does. And someone else. And another.

    It's good that you are noticing this negative behavior about yourself. It makes you want to know why you are like this and why you keep doing this to yourself. You're becoming more self-aware and that's amazing!

    If you have 12 minutes to spare, please take the time to take a personality test. Be 100% honest with yourself when answering. Here's a link.

    https://www.16personalities.com/

    I know this sounds crazy, but you'll learn things about yourself that you didn't even realize were there.

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  • ApplePine

    You might just be asexual.

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