Is it normal i can’t talk with boys

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I’m 14 year old and boy. I can talk with girls so easily. I think all boys want it and i am not complaining about this but I want to have a boy buddy. I can’t talk with them because I don’t have topic to talk with them. My all close friends are girl and my classmates are jealous of me. I have so many topics to talk with girls and i am more comfortable with girls then boys when i talk. With girls, I having fun but with boys.. eh, they always talking about boring topics. I just need friends and I have, I don’t care about genders but problem is classmates thinks I’m gay. Seriously? Just because of I have so many girl close friends. It’s so absurd. Whatever, give me advice about talking with boys, i need to have a boy buddy but I don’t know what should I talk with them.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    Yeah, some guys are just a little more in touch with their feminine side.

    People on here calling you gay are most likely wrong.

    Having more interests in common with girls doesn't equate to wanting another man's dick in your ass.

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  • redrainbow22
    6 years ago

    Are you wanting a boy friend just because of what others think of you?

    Or you just want to try something else?

    I wouldnt do it just because what people think. If you do it, do it because you want to

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    • flushflush7
      6 years ago

      A little bit yes a little bit no. I just had one real boy buddy. It is all, the other buddies all are girl. I just want to have a friendship with boys too.

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      • redrainbow22
        6 years ago

        If you want :) Then yea thats cool

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  • paramore93
    6 years ago

    They're probably just jealous that you are closer to the girls than they will ever be

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    • flushflush7
      6 years ago

      Yeah that should be why they’re calling me gay.

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  • tonyyaa
    6 years ago

    Teach me 5 topics to talk with girls and i will give you 5 topics to talk about with guys.

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    • flushflush7
      6 years ago

      Haha that really made me laugh. Do gossip with them. Do jokes and laugh with them. Watch same tv series with them. Find absurd but funny thing and laugh for it 1 year (2 girls and i laughed to vegetable so long time lmao) there is 4 topics, let’s see your topics ;)

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      • tonyyaa
        6 years ago

        Lmao alright here it goes : Talk about sports and whos better at playing it;) Talk about the hottest girl in your class and how she doesnt know you exist. Talk about grabbing a drink during the weekend. Ask them where they work and what they wanna do in the future. Talk about money and how you plan to get it. Uhm is not hard dude , goodluck!

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    • nytsrbisyf
      6 years ago

      HAHA FAIR ONE :D

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  • SammyStarts
    6 years ago

    Dude. Don't sweat it. It shouldn't matter what others think as long as your happy. If you really want to make friends than learn what is the current trend with boys or about what they talk about. This is from 14 year old to 14 year old. Do you boo.

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    • flushflush7
      6 years ago

      Yeah you’re right, but.. I couldn’t understand this, what is ‘boo’?

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  • bob7
    6 years ago

    play video games,

    and what do you talk with girls u cant talk about with boys ?

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    • flushflush7
      6 years ago

      I’m playing video games but my friends usally play CS:GO, GTA V, Battlefield. I always laugh to everything with girls. Doing gossip. Talking about music etc. but I can’t doing that with boys.

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      • redrainbow22
        6 years ago

        You can try to talk about whatever you wants with guys :)

        Are you saying you've tried to talk about those things with guys and they just arent interested?

        Or you just think you cant, cause you think they wont be interested?

        As in, have you actually tried?

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        • flushflush7
          6 years ago

          Yes I tried. Last year, my friendships didn’t bad like now with boys but this year i changed my school and this year I couldn’t find friend. They’re always talking what is I am not interested in.

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          • redrainbow22
            6 years ago

            What video games are you interested in then?

            I know you can find a guy that'll be your friend :)

            You just gotta talk to different guys, not every guy is the same

            How many have you tried talking to? :o

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  • JornGord
    6 years ago

    Sorry man, but you're gay. The way you type is gay. The things you like are gay. You think like how a female would. The fact that you like to gossip and want to talk about music pretty much proves to me that you don't have enough testosterone in you. If not that, you could just look down on other boys. Try lifting weights, and I mean real weights. Starting Strength is a good program. The sooner you start the better, and you'll thank yourself when you're older. Eat your vegetables and eat plenty of meat/eggs. It's never too soon to stop being gay.

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    • redrainbow22
      6 years ago

      Just because you dont have as much testosterone as others guys, doesnt make you gay lol

      Your trying to confuse him into believing hes gay lol When hes not.

      Not every guy has to lift weights or eat meat ffs XD Thats opinion

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      • JornGord
        6 years ago

        I can't confuse someone into liking men. The reality is that he likes to be around women and likes what they like. He doesn't like what the boys like. The only advice I can give him is to stop caring about whether the people you interact with are male or female. He could have just made a mental barrier between himself and other guys, perhaps the girls he hangs out with have instilled their way of thinking into him. If he has a genuine interest, but an inability, in making male friends, he's going to have to deconstruct the reasons. You either accept something about yourself and work with it or you change it. From what I've read, he's not putting a genuine effort into either. He should still lift weights, though. Strong people are harder to kill than weak people and are more useful in general.

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        • flushflush7
          6 years ago

          Can you just go? Talking about music or doing gossip doesn’t make me gay. Thank you for advice but I don’t need it babe. Maybe you should just try to be like human.

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        • redrainbow22
          6 years ago

          If hes not gay, hes not gay sir

          Thats a fact

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