Is it normal i assume my crush is in a relationship based on a facebook comment?

My crushes birthday was a few weeks ago and his relative whom he doesn't seem close to and who lives in another state wrote on his wall "Happy birthday and better not let someone else blow out your candles! 😉"

And I got down because I'm thinking oh no...is he in a relationship and I didn't know? He goes to my college fyi.

Is it normal I assume he's taken based on that comment?

Is It Normal?
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  • You should respond to that comment, " After your candles get blown out, I'll help you with the rest." Don't be timid; mark your territory.

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  • The relative could just be jokeing trying to say that it would be a good birthday party to get a blowjob. Just in general. I make those kind of jokes all the time, and they don’t MEAN anything.

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  • You're over thinking.

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  • Does it really matter?

    1) Relationships don't last forever

    2) He's a guy that will probably end up cheating anyway

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  • Who knows? It could just be a reference to a family in-joke.

    Do you know many people who are in romantic/sexual relationships with relatives who live in another state?

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