Is it normal i am such a slob and it is ruining my relationship with bf

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I try to be neat, but I suck at it.I am such a slob the cleaning lady won't clean my office anymore. My boss doesn't care.I pay my best friend and neighbor to clean my office and my house which my bf has a problem with.tried to clean out the car yesterday myself but I was tired after working 12 hours every day this week. I fell asleep in the car and didn't wake up until twelve hours later. he wants me to do it myself. I got woke up to the pleasant sounds of him screaming in my face because I forgot to clean out my dishes and the car.

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  • Freedom_
    8 years ago | pl

    He sounds like a controlling douche. It sounds like he's trying to teach you a lesson, like he's your dad or military instructor or something. Fuck that. You don't have to do things his way and you don't have to change the way you do things if it's working for you. I would want to give you a hug if I found you past out in your car from working so much, not yell at you (although I'm a chick, but I'm sure any reasonable person would).

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    8 years ago | pl

    Who the fuck keeps dishes in the car?. I don't understand people like this. It takes seconds to clean up after yourself.

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    • Ellenna
      8 years ago | pl

      Dishes AND the car, not IN the car! Her car, her dishes, her home, HER BUSINESS

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  • deshikd
    8 years ago | pl

    He doesn't sound very understanding.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago | pl

    Oh, life is so difficult, isn't it?

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  • NegativeGamer444
    8 years ago | pl

    i bet hes fat

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago | pl

    So who appointed him your master? He's a bullying control freak.

    As I said above, your home, your car, your dishes: your business.

    That said, I couldn't live someone as messy as you seem to be, but then I wouldn't try.

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago | pl

    LOL! "I got woke up to the pleasant sounds of him screaming in my face"

    Best. Day. Ever.

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    • despuit
      8 years ago | pl

      I was hoping she banged her head against the horn, or something.

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