Is it normal i am secrectly an escort?

No it's not normal. That's basically cheating.
You should tell your husband now even if you decide to quit.
What if you get a std or hiv from doing this and pass it to your husband? That would be awful.

in clear words, you are being a bitch, a liar and a cheater. You should stop it right away!

What would happen if your husband ever ended up being your client? Who would have the right to get mad at who? More importantly would he still have to pay?

Tell your husband.

No worries about that, I rarely do bareback unless they pay extra. Plus most are married, so it seems safe even then.

he didnt marry an escort . you'd be a dead escort and he could just say one of your secrete clients did it to you.

You’re disgusting. You’re poor husband :( I feel bad for him. He doesn’t deserve you.

Well, SaraRyan, I gather you were an escort or still are, so you know... I have no plan.
I am doing this for money the same as you.

I don't have any plans of quitting...
The money is too easy... If my husband finds out, then I'll deal with that then..

Mostly, I do enjoy it. Sometimes it's great.
Do I regret it? No. Do I wish I had better clients, Yes.
Do I wish to be an escort forever, No. Am I ashamed of being an escort, NO.

Being an Escort is the best thing ever!!!

I think I provide a good service, despite what you all think, and I am happy with my performances.

I paid too much for an Escort once. It was a fucking car.

I'll be your daddy, ever been to South Beach?

The problem is that you're cheating, not that you're an escort. That's incredibly cruel.

I didn’t find out till 15 years later that my ex-wife was a hooker in her early 20s in New York City. I met her in her early 30s and her sexual repertoire was off the charts. She taught me and showed me things I never imagined. I suspected that she was seeing guys on the side but she always denied it. Yet she always had a wallet full of money. When we reconnected she talked me into being her slave dominating me during some very intense sessions. Her favorite was dildo play and always denied me pleasure from her own body. She turned lesbian and ended up running off with my massage therapist.

What will you do if he finds out?

If you and your husband are never planning to have kids, I see no problem. But, it seems like eventually, bad karma will be in the making.

So you're a cunt?

Go for it enjoy, do they pay to have anal sex with you?

Why ruin a good thing? It's just sex, so enjoy!

You could probably make more money if you involved your husband in it also. Monogamy is really just for boring people who think leave it to beaver is a good reference for how to live your life.

But I like being an Escort, don't I get a say in this too?

Yes, being an Escort is Normal if your husband doesn't know

So are you enjoying the sex with other men? It seems like this thread has not been helpful, in terms of what do you like, and do you like what you are doing?

Don't tell your husband, it's too late now. If you'd told him you were "considering", he might've understood but now that you've already started, without his consent, it's not a good idea.

Advice:Keep detailed information on your habitués(clients) and practice safe-sex.

You're in a pickle to put it lightly.

Being an escort is fine. But I highly suggest you tell your husband.

Herpes is forever. Condoms don't prevent it

What the fuck. Are you a psychopath or something like that?

I think being an escort is just fine...

The money is easy, the sex is good, I was just suggesting that perhaps you have a plan, like in 3 or 6 months I'm done. If not, you will eventually get caught.

So you love being an escort, but don't love all your clients, so exactly what is your exit strategy?

Not being judgmental, and perhaps it's go as long as the money flows, but curious if there is any exit planned, or not.

Do you go both ways? What about couples? Are you also a Dominatrix? Do you want your husband to go Bi? Are you using him as a shield for your real business? He must get suspicious of the extra money?

Nothing wrong with being an escort, but keeping it a secret from your husband is where I think this goes wrong.

I understand, that you may feel like he'd squash the idea if he knew ahead of time you were thinking of going back to hooking, but you are where you are now.

Maybe tell him you are thinking of being an escort for some extra money and see what he says. It's a bit risky as he may suspect that's why you've been late getting home.

Better have a plan to explain those late nights first.

What are your rates? I prefer rough anal.

He knows I used to be a hooker before he married me.