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I have read somewhere that a person is either a leader or a follower but with me its diff. i can't be a leader & I don't want to be a follower,so what am i?
If you are neither a leader, nor a follower then you are an individual who marches to the beat of your own drum. Good for you I say!
I feel weird when I somehow end up in a position of leadership.
Most of all I can't stand when people think I will follow them, because it just makes me want to leave when they aren't looking. It's like saying, surprise, asshole, you aren't the boss of me. I like the idea of just wandering off when someone isn't looking like I'm an animal who smelled some cheese or something.
damn! everyone is saying the same damn thing "loner"... is this good to be a loner?
Well, technically I didn't say loner, but just that you are an individual who marches to the beat of your own drum.
You are a loner. Following your own rules. Consider the consequences carefully and make your decision.
There's nothing wrong with being a loner unless you're either hurting someone who cares about you, or if you're breaking the law in some way.
Depends on how you see it. I personally don't believe in this "nothing wrong" mindset. Many people say there is nothing wrong with this or that just to avoid hurting people's feelings. The truth is that it depends on the perspective and on the person.
If you want a family and a place in the society, then there is something wrong with being a loner, since it makes your journey much harder and worse and it may be incompatible with other aspirations.
I think that if you said you cant be a leader, in a situation of need you'll have to be a follower, regardless of your likes
I'm definitely a follower. I need someone to give me instructions or I just let life glaze over me...
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