Is it normal i am a prude and i hate it

I wish i wasnt raised this way but i am and i dont know how to change it. anyone have advice

Is It Normal?
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  • I think once you have fallen in love with a wonderful person, doing many of the things you find unpleasant to even imagine enjoying now, will become things you not only enjoy, but want to do often.
    It's pretty hard to be a prude when you are in a loving relationship.

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  • This will take time. Read up on CBT. Be as earthy as you can to protect yourself from your superego. And, stay away from your parents as best you can.

    Changing your feelings can seem impossible, but with time you may even be able to become a nudist, and a much happier person.

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  • Start masturbating, I guess. How about just being comfortable with who you are?

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    • I cant be comfortable with who i am when who i am is against what i believe in

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  • Aah that old conflict between how we've been raised and how we'd like to be ........ Change could take a while, but it is possible. I'd suggest Cognitive Behaviour Therapy which is about using your rational mind to change your feelings and responses; If you can't afford or can't find a counsellor there are books around and probably internet websites too

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