Is it normal i’m worried about my grandma moving in?
To make a long story short: my grandpa died a few months ago, and my grandma will move in with us real soon. She’s bringing my grandpa’s ashes, which I find deeply disturbing. My mom says she’ll probably just stay in her room and watch tv all day, but I worry she’ll have it up really loud and we’ll have to talk really loud around her. And I’ll probably sound like a heartless bastard for saying this, but I’m annoyed that my mom is worrying so much about my grandma, who’s 85 and most likely only has a few years left, and doesn’t seem to prioritize me at all, her 19 year old son who has a whole future ahead of him, and still hasn’t gone to college yet. Literally every time I bring up any concerns I have she just complains about all the other crap she has to deal with and says she doesn’t want to think about it. It also sucks that my two older sisters still live here, now I’ll be the only boy in a house with four females, three of them already never stfu! And the only time I ever ultimately feel at peace is when I’m home alone, and I worry I’ll never be able to be home alone again, at least as long as my grandma is still alive. I know I probably just seem like a complainer here, and maybe things will be better than I anticipate, but this is how I feel right now and I just needed to get it off my chest!