Before I tell you how do I feel on this, let me ask you something, have you ever ask your boyfriend that he can't stand to stay at his place because of the thousand memories of spending times together between him and his dog or because of the view of dog dead body in the kitchen tile? If the first is the second that's absolutely normal, my family did the same thing when Daddy was passed away, Mom say she couldn't bear all the memories of Daddy around the rooms of our house, so Mom moved to Grandma house and I moved to stay in a small flat. If the answer is the second, I think that what he is suffering is more than losing his beloved dog, it is the combination of guilty and the feeling of incapable of prevent the losing happened. Anyway, both will not change the condition that what had happened to him is normal. You can both allow him to dos so, or give him better option to stay, to help him accept the cruel reality and accept life as the way it is, that we can avoid loosing something we love. Tell him that even though something we love is gone, the memories will remain in the deepest past of our heart. Remember not to push him so hard, do it slowly with all understanding because the way people react on something is always different, you may accept the death of animal as something naturally happen but your boyfriend may not give the same reaction. I'm sure you are able to be such a loving and understanding girlfriend to help him go through this.
IIN he wants to move from our apartment because his dog died here?
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Before I tell you how do I feel on this, let me ask you something, have you ever ask your boyfriend that he can't stand to stay at his place because of the thousand memories of spending times together between him and his dog or because of the view of dog dead body in the kitchen tile? If the first is the second that's absolutely normal, my family did the same thing when Daddy was passed away, Mom say she couldn't bear all the memories of Daddy around the rooms of our house, so Mom moved to Grandma house and I moved to stay in a small flat. If the answer is the second, I think that what he is suffering is more than losing his beloved dog, it is the combination of guilty and the feeling of incapable of prevent the losing happened. Anyway, both will not change the condition that what had happened to him is normal. You can both allow him to dos so, or give him better option to stay, to help him accept the cruel reality and accept life as the way it is, that we can avoid loosing something we love. Tell him that even though something we love is gone, the memories will remain in the deepest past of our heart. Remember not to push him so hard, do it slowly with all understanding because the way people react on something is always different, you may accept the death of animal as something naturally happen but your boyfriend may not give the same reaction. I'm sure you are able to be such a loving and understanding girlfriend to help him go through this.