My cat back home had died while I was living out of state. I had him for 13 years. I was petrified of coming home after learning he had gotten sick and passed away. A year (to the day) after his death, I packed up and moved home. It was a lot easier coming home so long after his death but it was my first time coming home without him there to greet me so it was a bit hard in that aspect. I think coming home the same month that he passed would have been very hard for me to handle emotionally.
I can see why your boyfriend is acting this way, it's hard to be reminded of the change. I don't think moving will stop the pain, but it will allow him to escape it until he is ready to accept it.
IIN he wants to move from our apartment because his dog died here?
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My cat back home had died while I was living out of state. I had him for 13 years. I was petrified of coming home after learning he had gotten sick and passed away. A year (to the day) after his death, I packed up and moved home. It was a lot easier coming home so long after his death but it was my first time coming home without him there to greet me so it was a bit hard in that aspect. I think coming home the same month that he passed would have been very hard for me to handle emotionally.
I can see why your boyfriend is acting this way, it's hard to be reminded of the change. I don't think moving will stop the pain, but it will allow him to escape it until he is ready to accept it.