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So he bought a vibrator to use on me during foreplay and sex, but he just told me he uses it on himself too. Is that normal? I feel a bit weird using the vibrator now.
I know a couple who does the same thing. Don't feel weird about it; just make sure you properly clean it in between uses.
It's nothing to feel weirded out by as long as you keep the vibrator clean. If it still bothers you, tell him to get his own.
I wish I could share my vibrator with my wife, but she's a real prude and thinks masturbation and using toys is sick!
That's very sad: didn't you know she was like this before you married her or did you think she'd change?
She thinks that masturbation is sick? Please share with us all her other opinions.
Yes, but unless your in a long term monogamous relationship you should not share toys unless you put a condom on it. I would say get another one for him, but half the fun of using it on himself is because he knows you use it. Kink makes it more fun.
Are you talking about a dildo type vibrator that he would use in his ass and in your pussy, or a therapeutic type vibrator used externally on sore muscles?
Depends where he's putting the vibrator don't you think?
If he's using it on his dick that's probably ok because his dick goes in you anyway.
But if he's shoving that thing up his ass then there's a hygiene and infection issue.