Is it normal he cares about his career more than anything else

I take it you don't put your career before your relationship and you would like him to have the same approach. You are both normal. Talk to him, let him know how you feel and see if either of you is willing to make some compromises for the sake of your relationship. Although don't expect him to sacrifice his career to make you happy.

He's working towards his future, relationships come and go, if he sees a future with you he'll find a balance. You should do the same.

I have known many driven men in my lifetime, and not one of them made a good partner or mate.
Every single one had multiple marriages because of exactly what you are complaining about.
A good man would find a balance between money and his relationship(s).
Pack it in, the writing is on the wall.

he sounds sensible, you do not.

Maybe you should kill him then.