Is it normal he acts like this?

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OK so we are a bit kinky. For example I like spankings.... but one time my bf wad extremely mad at me and said "he'd give me a spankings I'll never forget"... it seems odd being out of anger. He also keeps saying he is gonna pee on me, hasn't yet because I act like I'm avoiding a spider. He also holds me down a lot to tickle and lick me... and that's whatever but I don't think I should have to pinch him and try to push him off when I want him to stop.... it takes a lot of begging. Sometimes he doesn't listen to no. He says I need to tell him when he needs to stop... but isn't begging him to stop the same thing? I mean of course it won't seem serious when I'm being tickled.
And uhh he went through a phase where he'd grab my head and pinch my nose... so I'd have to open my mouth and you can guess the rest. He didn't stop til I started biting
I'm not really good at saying no, I feel embarrassed and a prude. But sometimes I make it obvious... I just don't understand.. this seems like kinky gone wrong. He's very protective of me, he wants to kill all the people who abused me. So I don't understand why he's doing this weird stuff

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  • Keepsake
    7 years ago

    Not normal. There's nothing wrong with being 'kinky', but it's overboard if your partner won't listen to you saying no.

    Talk to him about this, if he dismisses your concern then I suggest you break things off. Otherwise, you'll endanger yourself by putting yourself in these situations.

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  • bubsy
    7 years ago

    If you aren't comfortable with something, tell him and do it in a setting outside the bedroom. If he doesn't change, then leave. But you owe it to him to be very clear how far is too far, and not to overuse the ellipsis...

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    You need to talk to him well out of any sexual context and establish a safe word he agrees to honour. If he won't do that, he's abusing you and you're allowing yourself to be endangered both physically and emotionally.

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    • peterrabbyt69
      7 years ago

      Ellenna, will you suck my nice 7 in cut cock please?

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  • COCKSUCKERS
    7 years ago

    Tease him and tell him that you want to see his naked cock and tell him to take his pants off and then you drop his drawers while you are on your knees so you can get a good look at his 7 inch cock staring you in your face and hold his pecker in your hand and manipulate his cock so that he thinks that you are going to put it in your mouth and suck it giving him a blowjob and hold his prick up out of the way so you get a good birds eye view of his nuts and aim so you dont miss kneeing him in the nut sack.
    Stand up and hug him with his pecker in your hand and lifted up and out of the way and knee him fast in the nut sack.
    If he has pants on , you might only knee his cock and miss his nuts and if you miss his ball bag , he wont fall down writhing in pain.

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  • notthatserious
    6 years ago

    Pretty much abuse. I would suggest a safe word. Mine used to be "bubblegum." but honestly he doesn't sound like the type who actually cares that you're uncomfortable.

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    This guy is abusing you.

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