I can't say if he will leave you and I'm sorry you're going through that 😯 What I can say is if he does want kids he's going to find out sooner than later and the sooner you tell him the better. Imagine investing your time into someone for years and planning a future and then finally find out, I would be more pissed off later on. I definitely think it's better to tell him and not drop hints because it might not be registering to him. Why do you think you can't have kids? Have you been to the doctors? They can do bloodwork and determine the possibilities. Why don't you get that done first and go from there.
I dont want to piss him off but at the same time i dont want to lose him either. My biggest fear is that.
I think he suspects it and at the very least i want to do that. At least he will know why i stay quiet or become somber when we encounter women with kids and or their families. I think its obvious in my face, because it becomes tight and tense then i start blushing.
My doctor told me its because my body doesnt make a hormone that i need to sustain a pregnancy- and they said that if it comes to it- they will refer me to infertility specialists which the prices are astronomically high and even then pregnancy is not guaranteed. It took the doctor five minutes to say this for those cold words it shook me numbed me.
Should i confess to him that ive not been taking the birth control pill because im trying to get pregnant. trying.
A friend of mine did Envitro (i think thats how you say it) and it still took her about 4 years to get pregnant and when she finally did it was with very premature twins with a ton of medical problems now. Its very sad and I guess its common with that. I can understand not wanting to loose him I'm sorry that must me an awful feeling. Do you think he would want to adopt? If I were you I wouldn't feel right keeping it from him to answer your question.
Yes, the doctor warned me of that- that your babies might come out with serious medical conditions. Its like a cruel joke from nature
we brushed up on adoptions. he agrees its sad how many healthy babies are born and not loved or wanted by their parents- but has not directly said he does want to.
This is why i love the internet. I dont know you but im grateful that you are reaching out to me- in real life i cannot talk about this with anyone.
thank you:)
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I can't say if he will leave you and I'm sorry you're going through that 😯 What I can say is if he does want kids he's going to find out sooner than later and the sooner you tell him the better. Imagine investing your time into someone for years and planning a future and then finally find out, I would be more pissed off later on. I definitely think it's better to tell him and not drop hints because it might not be registering to him. Why do you think you can't have kids? Have you been to the doctors? They can do bloodwork and determine the possibilities. Why don't you get that done first and go from there.
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I dont want to piss him off but at the same time i dont want to lose him either. My biggest fear is that.
I think he suspects it and at the very least i want to do that. At least he will know why i stay quiet or become somber when we encounter women with kids and or their families. I think its obvious in my face, because it becomes tight and tense then i start blushing.
My doctor told me its because my body doesnt make a hormone that i need to sustain a pregnancy- and they said that if it comes to it- they will refer me to infertility specialists which the prices are astronomically high and even then pregnancy is not guaranteed. It took the doctor five minutes to say this for those cold words it shook me numbed me.
Should i confess to him that ive not been taking the birth control pill because im trying to get pregnant. trying.
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A friend of mine did Envitro (i think thats how you say it) and it still took her about 4 years to get pregnant and when she finally did it was with very premature twins with a ton of medical problems now. Its very sad and I guess its common with that. I can understand not wanting to loose him I'm sorry that must me an awful feeling. Do you think he would want to adopt? If I were you I wouldn't feel right keeping it from him to answer your question.
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Yes, the doctor warned me of that- that your babies might come out with serious medical conditions. Its like a cruel joke from nature
we brushed up on adoptions. he agrees its sad how many healthy babies are born and not loved or wanted by their parents- but has not directly said he does want to.
This is why i love the internet. I dont know you but im grateful that you are reaching out to me- in real life i cannot talk about this with anyone.
thank you:)
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Glad I could help and good luck with everything!