Is it normal guys what do you think

Not all guys want kids.
And some are willing to adopt children.

Also consider that some of the women you mentioned may be single parents either by choice or circumstance. Everyone doesn't lead perfect lives although it may seem so from the outside.

I in fact don't care if a female is fertile because I am one of those weird "selfish" males that want no children. There is nothing wrong with you at all.

Lots of nieces and nephews need a nice aunt. Don't pass up the opportunity.

Im thinking that in this day and age with the economy what it is, and life as hard as it is. With more often, both adults working, that such a condition would be very welcome.
There are a lot of men and women who dont really want to have kids either for various reasons. Namely, they see what the world is becoming and dont want to bring innocent children into it.
But if your relationship is serious and you know that there's even a slight chance that he wants kids in the future then you should tell him.

There are so many orphaned children out htere. Adopt and you will not only make your life better but you will make the world better.

Your story makes me want to cry.
I don't think I'm able to conceive as well he knows but I feel useless to the fact that I may not be able to have a little me.

You should tell him. Otherwise you are setting him up for disappointment and resentment if he does want biological children. That said, I don't think he will leave you. You can still have children though adoption, and perhaps through ivf/ fertility treatments depending on what exactly your form of infertility is.

I don't want kids at all and would not mind one bit that you can't have any. In fact it would be a relief as most women don't listen when a man says he doesn't want children, then they proceed to get pregnant and are shocked when he leaves.

Kids are horrible. Sorry, but I could never raise a child and would never want to. I can't even stand my own nephew.

You could always adopt.

Please don't worry. I don't know much but I can tell you this. Everybody's going through shit. I'm going through depression. My dad's going to lose his house soon because rent is too pricey. My mom needs a job soon she can't pay her rent soon either. Everybody's going through shit. Don't let this ruin your life.

Awe thats not a reason to end your life. Ive accepted that ill probably never be in a real relationship and ill probably never have kids as a result.

You don't have to be able to have kids to get married or be in a relationship. It's definitely not worth ending your life.

There's no way I'm fertile so it wouldn't make a difference to me!!

Not that I'd care anyways

The idea of giving birth has always terrified me! I can't imagine going through all that pain for someone else.

I can't say if he will leave you and I'm sorry you're going through that 😯 What I can say is if he does want kids he's going to find out sooner than later and the sooner you tell him the better. Imagine investing your time into someone for years and planning a future and then finally find out, I would be more pissed off later on. I definitely think it's better to tell him and not drop hints because it might not be registering to him. Why do you think you can't have kids? Have you been to the doctors? They can do bloodwork and determine the possibilities. Why don't you get that done first and go from there.

I think you're making this out to be a way bigger deal in your mind than it actually needs to be. And I'm not trying to trivialise the problem; I just think a lot of it is due to how badly you're perceiving yourself and the situation.

On a personal level, there's no need for it to affect your self-esteem. I can understand if it makes you feel inferior as a woman, but it's an invisible condition and it says nothing about who you are. So on that level it sounds like you are by far your worst judge, and you're assuming people think way worse than they actually do.

The reality is, guys (and people in general) won't think less of you at all. And I'm not just saying that to be nice. It only becomes relevant if your boyfriend/husband wants children. And I'm assuming you already do from the post.

If that's something that you guys are going to want at some stage, then you should tell him. But first I think you need to get some perspective about it. Because it sounds like it's this huge thing weighing you down, and I don't think it needs to be like that - it's like you're torturing yourself for no reason.

So, I can understand if you're sad because you want your own children so badly and you know that'll never happen. that's fair enough and it's something to come to terms with.
But most of your other fears, I think, are because you're making yourself feel worse than you need to.

To answer the question, personally I know I don't want kids so I'd prefer an infertile partner. And as an aside, I think more people need to realise that it's perfectly okay to *not* have or want kids (it just seems like a given for so many people and sometimes I doubt how much thought actually goes into it).

But anyway, unless your boyfriend is an ass or he doesn't love you, there's no reason for him to leave you if you tell him.

Lastly, try and stop comparing yourself to everyone else. I know it's hard, but you are your own person. I just think you're being way too self-critical about the whole thing and there's a big self-image, self-worth problem underneath it.