Is it normal grandpa not coming to christmas dinner bc of girlfriend?what to do?

He says its because he had major heart surgery a couple months ago and she has been in and out of the hospital.But I know the truth.She doesn't like me because she is stuck up and wants to stay in a hotel because my house is messy and my family and I fight and scream at each other constantly. It angers me that they started seeing each other 6 months after my grandma died. She is a huge know it all.
They are going several hours away to visit her family and my son and daughter's family But they can't come here. They didn't come to my son's wedding either. They sent a shitty gift that my son liked. this horrible woman has him by the balls and I don't what to do.

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Comments ( 9 )
  • charli.m

    You need to lay off the pumpkin spice.

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  • Boojum

    What a total bastard! He has a family duty to put up with your filthy house, your constant screaming matches, and your ingratitude for gifts he sends to your spawn. He also obviously should have grieved for your grandmother for the rest of his life and never even looked at another woman.

    You should tell him that he's never welcome in your house again.

    If I were him, I'd be relieved.

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  • Nicole20

    Man, who wouldn't want to go to a messy house with constant fighting and screaming. What a stuck up bitch!!

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  • LornaMae

    Ah, the joys of Christmas time!

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  • IrishPotato

    I wouldn't want to either.

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  • leggs91200

    JERRY JERRY JERRY

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  • McBean

    She just won the lottery, so to speak. She will take all your inheritance, and laugh at you after he is dead.

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  • SwickDinging

    It doesn't matter what old people do, they will be dead soon

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    • leggs91200

      hahahahah...
      Swick, I always look forward to what you will have to say about things :)

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