IIN for your GF to sometimes feel lonely while she's dating you?

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  • No, you aren't silly - that seems like a very legitimate thing to question. You might, but I doubt you have a lot to worry about. (:

    Maybe she is referring to having friend-friends which she is lonely for. Because, there's a different between the companionship of a boyfriend/girlfriend to that of a friend.

    For instance, if you two were stranded on a deserted island and you only had each other for company. You are in love with each other but, naturally, it would be healthier if you had a conversation with a different person now and then---and not just with some stranger, but a friend whom you like.

    The love for friends is different. You need them about as much as you need your girlfriend/boyfriend, but the love is a different sort of love. I think if she were lonely because she's unhappy for you, she wouldn't say something like this to you; unless she was accusing you directly of making her feel lonely - but then that's just a whole other can of worms, and everything I've written would not apply.

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    • don't be too optimistic.

      she probably needs some other man who can give her the feel of protection and home

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      • Men aren't the only thing women need to feel happy, just like women aren't the only thing men need to be happy.

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