I think it's shitty for someone to get another person wasted, and then put the moves on them, but selfish people who are looking to take advantage of others when they're vulnerable do it all the time. Honestly, I tend to get really freaked out when some people are too friendly with me. I'd rather hang out with gay men than bi women or straight men for the most part! The older I get the less flirty I am, because I don't want anyone to misunderstand.
However, it's about more than just sexual preference. I generally prefer to shy away from people who have too many objections when they are told no. Anyone who is too pushy and demanding about about little things like where to go out to eat, or what music to listen to should be someone who sets off red flags for a healthy person. The one chick said she had a boyfriend, and the other selfish one should have respected that! I used to smoke weed with a lesbian from work back in the day, and she never got too weird, but I will also say that maybe she was being respectful, because I always had the California chronic back in those days. Her name was Ebony, she was from Watts and a bit of a bad ass, but was always really real aAnd good to me as just a platonic friend. It's about respect; I think its far more important for a person to respect others than to always get their way.
From what I've been reading, and heard, they were in a relationship.
The moment you take drugs or drink without having full control of your actions, you're putting yourself at risk of things like that happening.
I've hooked up with people when I was high, I don't regret it, but would probably not do it if I were sober.
IIN for women to take advantage of friends?
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I think it's shitty for someone to get another person wasted, and then put the moves on them, but selfish people who are looking to take advantage of others when they're vulnerable do it all the time. Honestly, I tend to get really freaked out when some people are too friendly with me. I'd rather hang out with gay men than bi women or straight men for the most part! The older I get the less flirty I am, because I don't want anyone to misunderstand.
However, it's about more than just sexual preference. I generally prefer to shy away from people who have too many objections when they are told no. Anyone who is too pushy and demanding about about little things like where to go out to eat, or what music to listen to should be someone who sets off red flags for a healthy person. The one chick said she had a boyfriend, and the other selfish one should have respected that! I used to smoke weed with a lesbian from work back in the day, and she never got too weird, but I will also say that maybe she was being respectful, because I always had the California chronic back in those days. Her name was Ebony, she was from Watts and a bit of a bad ass, but was always really real aAnd good to me as just a platonic friend. It's about respect; I think its far more important for a person to respect others than to always get their way.
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From what I've been reading, and heard, they were in a relationship.
The moment you take drugs or drink without having full control of your actions, you're putting yourself at risk of things like that happening.
I've hooked up with people when I was high, I don't regret it, but would probably not do it if I were sober.