Is it normal for the only reason i want to lose weight is so i can have sex?

Usually people say the reason they want to lose weight is so they will be healthier and happier. But you know. You know they're actually talking about their sex lives. Happy and healthy, indeed.

This is way more common than I think is usually said out loud. After all, heard about how much sex they have in the Olympic Village?

You are normal as all hell.

You can have sex fat, you know.

You sound like a 15 year old boy, "If I get a cool car, I can get a girlfriend."
Look around you. Do you not see plenty of attractive women (not girls, women) with overweight men? Women do not put near as much emphasis on esthetics as men do.
Loose weight for sure and seek to be healthier, for yourself, but if you can't get laid now, losing weight isn't really going to make all that much difference.

It's completely normal, but as much as society stresses weight as a huge deal in sexual attraction, there are people out there who honestly won't care. If you are overweight and it's a legit health problem - become healthy. If losing weight will make you personally happy with yourself - go ahead, in moderation.

If it's only about the sex (as I bet many other people are in your situation - which is so normal, btw), then I'd say work on looking for a relationship (if not in one already) with someone who cares for you mentally and physically with the way you are now. It'll probably be hard to accept yourself, but building confidence will help. Good luck. :)

Yep. I'm in the same boat

I've had this thought a million times. I'm pretty overweight myself. However, my boyfriend couldn't care less about that and we do it really often. It's just really sad that we think those thoughts in the first place; makes being this way pretty depressing.