This is perfectly normal. It's hard to find genuine friendship. It's doesn't always have to be sexual either. People will befriend people because of looks, money, social static you name it! The list goes on, and on. I would believe a majority of friendship are based off of superficial reasons. It's hard to find someone who genuinely wants to be with you for you.
This is the best way anyone could answer my question. Thank you so much for putting this in my head because now I don't have to take it so personally anymore. It is better off for me to be in my situation than to have a fake person in my life.
No problem. I just try to let people view things from many different perspectives, so they have the strongest possible personal view on the subject.
I've seen so many HighSchool relationships start based off "I'm sexually attracted to you, and you're sexually attracted lets make it happen!" Then the couple doesn't work because they have no other common interest in one other besides sex.
Then this makes future relationship harder for them, and their significant other. They either feel mental and physical ownership and attachment to their ex, or their new partner can't stand the fact some they love thinks of another the way they think of them!
My best advice would be to date a lot of people never introduce sex to the relationship and who ever stays with you the longest despite no sex they probably genuinely want to be with you for you.
(On a side note this is way I never understood why guys lie to females saying they're interested in a relationship, but they just want sex. Seem like a lot of wasted time and heart break just to have sex. I'm pretty sure there's a lot of women who want to have sex, and no relationship too. Like don't lie, and waste someone's time for superficial sexually lust DAMN!!!)
IIN for people to fake being friends so that they end up having sex?
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This is perfectly normal. It's hard to find genuine friendship. It's doesn't always have to be sexual either. People will befriend people because of looks, money, social static you name it! The list goes on, and on. I would believe a majority of friendship are based off of superficial reasons. It's hard to find someone who genuinely wants to be with you for you.
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This is the best way anyone could answer my question. Thank you so much for putting this in my head because now I don't have to take it so personally anymore. It is better off for me to be in my situation than to have a fake person in my life.
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No problem. I just try to let people view things from many different perspectives, so they have the strongest possible personal view on the subject.
I've seen so many HighSchool relationships start based off "I'm sexually attracted to you, and you're sexually attracted lets make it happen!" Then the couple doesn't work because they have no other common interest in one other besides sex.
Then this makes future relationship harder for them, and their significant other. They either feel mental and physical ownership and attachment to their ex, or their new partner can't stand the fact some they love thinks of another the way they think of them!
My best advice would be to date a lot of people never introduce sex to the relationship and who ever stays with you the longest despite no sex they probably genuinely want to be with you for you.
(On a side note this is way I never understood why guys lie to females saying they're interested in a relationship, but they just want sex. Seem like a lot of wasted time and heart break just to have sex. I'm pretty sure there's a lot of women who want to have sex, and no relationship too. Like don't lie, and waste someone's time for superficial sexually lust DAMN!!!)
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