Is it normal for people to bad mouth you when you right across them in sameroom

Not sure what ur age and everyday setting is but if it were me-I'd either end up fighting or avoiding the person/people. Maybe let some1 in authority know what the problem is to help calm it down and/or change the setting (they dont have 2 necessarily talk to the people about it or told them u said anything 2 them about it). As far as family, Id avoid those family members and hang out w/the ones that I got along with (that goes for peers as well). If they still try to talk with u, u can either make the conversation as quick as possible and kinda "eaze out" of the relation or just let them know not 2 come around u if they r gonna talk shit (however u choose 2 put it).

When someone engages you in this kind of conversation, just come out with it and say you refuse to be a back-talker because it makes you feel bad and leave. Or for every bad thing someone says about someone, say something good. It will sound absurdly out of context and throw them off guard and they will get the message. But resist the urge to point fingers and go off on your family, calling every one out on what they all said. Don't throw fuel on this fire or you'll be the target they are all drooling over.

You are powerless to stop their annoying gossip. But you can choose to empower yourself by setting certain boundaries. You can choose not to participate in the gossiping and also choose not to confide things of a personal nature to those who do the gossiping.

If it's any consolation my younger sister and I both can't stand our extended family either.

one people is your family

They must really hate you.

Yes it's normal, however when you say people I think you mean woman :O