Is it normal for people to act out sexually after leaving a lovingrelationship

partner left and is acting out sexually after leaving a relationship that was loving. some addiction issues lead to breakup. couldnt stop drinking and thought being on own would help. early sobriety

Is It Normal?
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  • Well I remember a long time ago I was infatuated with someone and they began to cause me to misbehave. After they left I had become very promiscuous since they seem to had loosened the chains a tad before we went separate ways. After that I was kind of wild for awhile but I was never happy again.

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  • it happens

    sometimes someone breaks up and starts having sex with others to...

    - hurt the ex
    - celebrate being free
    - drown their own sorrow

    or a mixture of all of that

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  • After being shackled to one person for ages, people are bound to want to experiment!

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  • This reminds me of a voiced out captain's logs in cheesy B movies.

    "Captain's Log, Dated 12 August 1943-

    Fascist pigs took southern section of city. Commander ordered us to pull back. Embittered conflict in the oil refineries and surrounding suburbs. Men grimly joke that we've taken the kitchen, but are still fighting for the living room. Every inch of ground gained is hard won.

    Dawn is coming. They are coming.

    I have to go."

    Yes it's normal? I'm not sure what you're asking and context was left out (not sure if that was intentional).

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  • i just ended a long-term "loving" relationship and i am hornier than ever if that helps. the thought of being with new people drives me crazy so i understand where your partner is coming from. people are animals, driven by sex. down with monogamy, down!

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  • It is normal, hun. When I was with my first boyfriend I totally fell in love. Lost my virginity to him and thought we'd get married and live happily every after... After I found out he was seeing someone else for the last 2 months of our relationship and left me for that same girl, i really acted out. I started messing around with my best friend, dated a girl with huge boobs, screwed around with the same jerk who dumped me, and then slept with a guy i hardly knew. i was horribly heart broken and i just wanted to destroy myself. Don't do that ok? all it does is causes you to lose people you care about and give yourself lots of regrets later on in life.

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  • Not normal, trashy as fuck.

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  • It could be she's trying to be sure she is still desirable . That's what I did after breaking off a 6 year relationship .

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  • new to this so hava heart. thanks for your sensativity.
    i'm worried about her self destructing and not sure if i should get involved.

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    • get involved

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  • get drunk and have sex?

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