If it's meant as a compliment then I'll take it as a compliment.
Touching me when I don't want to be touched is definitely not a compliment. Saying such crude things to me and about me is not a compliment. And also staring at my boobs while talking to me is not a compliment, and way to perverted to be taken as one.
I've tried that with a mid 40's year old customer after hearing people telling me similar advice on this post, they just waited till I finished serving the line of customers, and started talking to me again in a very inappropriately manner, while trying to get my number. I even lied about having a boyfriend and he said he didn't care.
I can't just ignore a problem when it happens this often, and with out any respect to my body when making crude comments. Or my self as a person when they won't leave me alone unless I leave my station for a while till they get bored of waiting for my return and leave.
But I can't do that every time because I always got customers to serve and barely anyone to cover my desk.
We have different situations, I'm facing old to elderly men, crude and disgusting comments, not wolf whistles like you got. And inappropriate touching.
Different solution will suit our different situations. There's only so much that a person can tolerate. Everyone has their breaking point.
Sorry if I sound brash but I hope if you were a man in his 40's with a young daughter, that you wouldn't tell her to take the things I stated above as a compliment from a heap of old men as old or even older than you.
Thank you for understanding my situation.
Yeah it gets to be really inappropriate some times.
Okay I'll let my boss know, I don't know what they'll do about it, since our new boss doesn't like banning people from the store but hopefully they can keep the customer away from me if they come back.
Then tell his ass "please sir, you're holding up the line"
Nicely, and thats it.
Simply solved. Its not a big deal. Take it as a compliment. All sorts of people are going to find you attractive. And some people WONT find you attractive.
IIN for older men to ask me out?
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No didn't work with the last one he held up the line because he was so persistent.
Yeah you have no idea how frustrating it is.
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I had a gay guy give me a whistle before
Or a shout out lol
I just take it as a compliment. Good for me haha
But if you need to get to business, just say so
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If it's meant as a compliment then I'll take it as a compliment.
Touching me when I don't want to be touched is definitely not a compliment. Saying such crude things to me and about me is not a compliment. And also staring at my boobs while talking to me is not a compliment, and way to perverted to be taken as one.
I've tried that with a mid 40's year old customer after hearing people telling me similar advice on this post, they just waited till I finished serving the line of customers, and started talking to me again in a very inappropriately manner, while trying to get my number. I even lied about having a boyfriend and he said he didn't care.
I can't just ignore a problem when it happens this often, and with out any respect to my body when making crude comments. Or my self as a person when they won't leave me alone unless I leave my station for a while till they get bored of waiting for my return and leave.
But I can't do that every time because I always got customers to serve and barely anyone to cover my desk.
We have different situations, I'm facing old to elderly men, crude and disgusting comments, not wolf whistles like you got. And inappropriate touching.
Different solution will suit our different situations. There's only so much that a person can tolerate. Everyone has their breaking point.
Sorry if I sound brash but I hope if you were a man in his 40's with a young daughter, that you wouldn't tell her to take the things I stated above as a compliment from a heap of old men as old or even older than you.
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Well I didnt know people touched you. Yea thats definately not needed
Smack their hand away. They'll quickly get the message haha
Doesnt matter if your at a job or not, people have to respect your boundries
Yea I understand you dont like being talked sexually to like that. I understand :) thats cool
awwww, well tell him then that you dont like that and obviously dont give him your number
yea obviously people cant expect girls to like that
maybe some whores or something XD
bunch of retards. i love girls, and i never talk dirty to them even if i find them attractive
obviously thats not how you start a good relationship
whatttttttt!! :o what a piece of shit! damnnnnnnnnn haha
that dude needs to be punched in the balls or something
like gtfo!
damn slap those niggas! dont let them touch your body if you dont want it!
hot damn, people would be dead if it was me
you dont have to put up with this shit
tell your boss or something! tell them customers are harrassing you
do something my girl!
yea and your breaking point should have been done already
i mean comments are just comments, but touching is where the shit stops
no im young, but yea i definately understand it makes you feel uncomfortable :/
awww, you gotta stop it though! i hope you do something to help yourself!
you can do it! it doesnt matter if its work or not
boundries are boundries, even at work, and people have to respect you
i hope you help yourself! good luck to you! you can do it!
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Thank you for understanding my situation.
Yeah it gets to be really inappropriate some times.
Okay I'll let my boss know, I don't know what they'll do about it, since our new boss doesn't like banning people from the store but hopefully they can keep the customer away from me if they come back.
Thank you, and I wish you all the best as well.
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oh yea definately :)
i thought it was much more simple than it actually is
i wanna help youuuuuu!
GOOD! these older dudes are just pervy. but how do they expect to get anywhere being pervy?
unless like i said your a whore, and im glad your not!
or hopefully your new boss can just nicely tell the customers to stop harassing you
awww thanks! n your welcome! i wish you the best too! :)
believe me i deal with crazy shit at my work too XD haha
people going crazy over some tartar sauce lol
and fights about to break out XD haha
but i really hope you help your problem and you can be comfortable again :)
if you do get help, please let me know, good luck to you!
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It's going okay now, I've been moved to another position now where I get less interaction with customers.
Yeah they're just stupid and weird. And no I'm not.
Haha that'd be funny to watch but suck if they involved you in it.
Thanks, and yeah so far haven't met a creep this week. Just nice customers now, and older men who act respectful.
Then tell his ass "please sir, you're holding up the line"
Nicely, and thats it.
Simply solved. Its not a big deal. Take it as a compliment. All sorts of people are going to find you attractive. And some people WONT find you attractive.
Thats life.