Is it normal for my gf to be friends with someone she had a lesbian w/experence

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Me and my girlfriend always talk on the phone cause we never get to see each other. And we talk dirty to each other. So she told me when she was 10, had a lesbian experience with her friend. And now she told me it was one of her best friends that I hang out with. Now every time I'm with both of them I get turned on. She said they both forgot about it. And I want them to do it again with me watching, since now there 18. Is either one of those normal.

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  • FrancoisDillinger
    12 years ago | pl

    When you said they had a lesbian experience when they were ten I was immediately turned off lol

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    • JustDave
      12 years ago

      Yeah, describing anything two 10 year olds do together as being lesbian or gay is kind of funny. More like playing doctor.

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      • droopzy
        11 years ago

        Them eating each other out is not doctor

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    • droopzy
      11 years ago

      If you saw them now, the thought of them doing anything would drive you crazy

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  • Energy
    12 years ago | pl

    1st part is normal. 2nd sounds like it could ruin your guy's relationship. Don't be another horny bastard.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    Title is misleading.

    yes it's normal for her to be friends with the other girl

    however pushing her back into the girl's arms just so you can get off on it is NOT. it's also a good way to lose her.

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    • CumAndGetIt
      12 years ago

      Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress is right. I am up in my age now but the girl of my dreams and I got married and then she started telling my about lesbian relationships she had. I asked who and what I shock I got, I knew all those girls from school and never suspected a thing. Well, soon she had one and then another come by and I finally caught her three times in a lesbian act.
      I didn't scold her but as time went by, these turned into orgys. She got all the attention. Hmmmmmm. Long story short, I don't think what you do will change her mind of her lifes direction. Be cool-Don't be a fool!...

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        12 years ago

        Well.... don't get me wrong. if she wants to have a threesome with the OP that's one thing.

        but PUSHING her into it against her will is just going to piss her off.

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    • droopzy
      11 years ago

      How is it misleading?

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        11 years ago

        It's misleading because this isn't about whether or not the GF is friends with the woman she once had sex with.

        It's about the boyfriend trying to force her back into a lesbian experience so that he can get off on it

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        • droopzy
          11 years ago

          NO. I'm asking if it is normal for them to be friends and act like everything is fine. I'm also asking if its normal for me to want them to do it again. Its not just about me getting off.

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          • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
            11 years ago

            which is the irony really.

            you're not sure if it's normal that they are just friends now.
            yet you want them to have sex with each other anyway....

            perhaps the answer is to leave their relationship with each other alone.

            as i said earlier, if you try to force them back into it it may not go the way you planned

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  • Bobjoefredsky
    12 years ago

    I wouldn't know why you'd WANT to see it if you really cared about this girl. You should be aware that women aren't just sex objects unless your paying them and its recreational. Even though you may get turned on by two girls doing it, they still had actual feelings for each other at one point, so basically what your saying is that you WANT them to cheat in front of your eyes, which is not normal under any circumstance.

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    • daddyfckme
      12 years ago

      MY HUBBY WOULD AGREE WITH YOU THERE.......i don't see anything wrong with it personally IF all 3 parties are in agreement on it but my man tells a different story...so i respect that opinion on it

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    • shade_ilmaendu
      11 years ago

      It's not cheating if you're not in a monagamous relationship. If she was ok with doing it and he was ok with her doing it, I don't see how you can call that cheating. It's cheating when one party doesn't know and isn't okay with it.

      It's all a matter of whether or not she wants to.

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    • droopzy
      11 years ago

      But most of our "relationship" is based on sex

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  • SuperSushi
    12 years ago

    If they bring it up, and you can tell they mean it, go for it. But if they dont want/mention it, dont push for it. If you push for it you could lose both of them. Just be respectful and courteous.

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  • ducktruck
    12 years ago

    Be carefull if you ask her about it. If she's insecure all she'll hear is that you want to see her friend naked and think you like her friend more.

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  • milkymum
    12 years ago

    the best thing is to ask her if she would do it again ever not with your mate but with any girl first, cos if she says yes then say would you with your mate.

    If she says i think about it, let her and dont mention it until she wnats too.

    Also i did a lesbian thing with my mate at school (we where 15) and did it first time for ourselfs, 2nd time for our mates at the time and 3rd time was for her hubby who like you found out what we did when we where younger.

    So dont push her and she will do it for you

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  • Mr_MAXMAN
    12 years ago

    whatever's in ur heart!...............

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  • Atomsk1
    12 years ago

    Its normal to want it but i guarantee if it happens it will blow up in your face. It will fuck up their friendship, youll get really jealous of the other girl, and since you are still young, those girls are going to get really emotional and immature about it and make your life hell. The relationship will be over. But if you just want to have a three way and dont really care about the relationship continuing, go for it.

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    • KrunkFu
      12 years ago

      dude you are retarded... this guy is clearly a normal guy that wouldnt get jealous over it and the girls wouldnt get emotional over it.. if anything this will make their relationship better by adding an extra flare into it.

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  • kawaiimofo
    12 years ago

    I had lesbian experiences and my boyfriend knows it. He has had gay ones. We both still hangout with the people, but we don't do anything.

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  • ishitpandas
    12 years ago

    Hell no

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  • Malaglinir
    12 years ago

    "She said they both forgot about it. And I want them to do it again with me watching"

    I laughed REALLY hard at this, they aren't going to do it bro.

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  • Peypey067
    8 years ago

    Lesbian experience is usually normal for most girls. But not really at that young of an age. They can still be good friends after all that happened because they could think it was just the past. It is normal to want to see two or one girl naked or having sexual moments with the other, but dont tell them that to their face, they could get embarrassed. And dont force them to do anything, it reminds mr of sexual abuse! But dont go looking up porn videos or photos if you want to see "a sight". (Look at iin for me to watch porn, and you will see my answer) :)

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  • mrsandman
    12 years ago

    "She said they both forgot about it. And I want them to do it again with me watching, since now there 18. Is either one of those normal." normal for me would be wanting to be involved and not watching

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  • tentacleTherapist
    12 years ago

    It's normal, but don't force them.

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  • Its_Called_Love
    12 years ago

    Yeahh... You really shouldn't push for that...

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  • KrunkFu
    12 years ago

    lol at these people saying it would ruin it... the only way it would ruin it is if you kept persisting and wouldnt leave her alone about it. keep trying man just dont bug the hell out of her.

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