See thats what makes it so difficult. That it was your own father who treated you that way, someone you are supposed to look up to and someone who is supposed to care about you and treat you as his son/daughter. It is an abusive relationship and it is not normal, by that i mean unacceptable. I know that it is easier said than done trust me i have been there. My brother still is a meth head and i have been through hell trying to help him and being subject to his abuse. And i still burst into tears to this day about a particular incident.
Talk to someone about it; Try to get him help. Have an intervention from a professional. See what can be done about getting him out of his alcoholism. Try this first. If this does not work, then you will just have to accept that some people will never change, and move on away from that abusive relationship, it will be hard to accept, but thats life.
IIN for my dad to hurt me..
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See thats what makes it so difficult. That it was your own father who treated you that way, someone you are supposed to look up to and someone who is supposed to care about you and treat you as his son/daughter. It is an abusive relationship and it is not normal, by that i mean unacceptable. I know that it is easier said than done trust me i have been there. My brother still is a meth head and i have been through hell trying to help him and being subject to his abuse. And i still burst into tears to this day about a particular incident.
Talk to someone about it; Try to get him help. Have an intervention from a professional. See what can be done about getting him out of his alcoholism. Try this first. If this does not work, then you will just have to accept that some people will never change, and move on away from that abusive relationship, it will be hard to accept, but thats life.
Let me know how it goes