Is it normal for my best friend to get a boner from me?

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Okay so my friend who I have known for a very long time was hanging out with me at his house. Him and I were playing with his little brother and we were hiding from him in his room. When his brother found us, he tried to come in the door but I wouldn't let him. My friend then decided to come up behind me and help keep the door closed. As he did that, his crotch brushed against my backside multiple times...I was kinda awkward but I thought nothing of it. When he moved away I saw that he had a boner! I was sort of shocked but I suppose it was to be expected. The only thing is that he had made it pretty obvious that he doesn't like me and would never want to do such things with me, but what's with the boner? I mean it only brushed against me for like a whopping 2 seconds. I don't understand...please help.

It's perfectly fine. It's probably nothing. 52
No...just no... 3
Absolutely not! 5
I don't see a problem with it... 25
Kinda. It probably just happened to show up... 14
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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    It happens to boys all the time. No worries.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    If it happens again offer him a blow job

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    I think he might be into you. He didn't want to lose face when he told me he's absolutely not into you. But the way you describe the scene, it felt like an intentional thing from his side. Then again it can be just an accidental boner, but it's weird at best. Try asking him

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  • randypete
    5 years ago

    Offer him a blow job and your ass

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  • Umwhatsthis
    5 years ago

    Are you a girl or boy? Anyways that happens to us guys all the times if it brushes against something enough times

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  • Boojum
    5 years ago

    Oh, come on. If you're a young-teen guy (as the silly game playing suggests you are), then you should know that guys your age get erections at the drop of a hat. Do you have any control over when you get one? When he was pushing against you, there was physical stimulation of his penis, so it got hard.

    Don't over-analyse.

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    • Checkmate_King
      5 years ago

      guys get hard when the wind blows. Nothing more than that.

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  • FrostyChocolateMilkshake
    5 years ago

    Boners have an annoying tendency of popping up at the most unfortunate of times, it's probably nothing.

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  • Uniquegirl54
    5 years ago

    He probably got horny.

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  • Nickvey
    5 years ago

    sound like you are the one preoccupied with his penis.

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  • edwininthematrix
    5 years ago

    his protective instinct kicked in and he subconsciously felt like he was the only thing defending you from the door being opened.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    It's a normal reaction.

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  • Olivia413
    5 years ago

    Well guys tend to get a boner from pretty much anything even if they don't want it. In this case, it's like stimulation when he brushed it on you by accident

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  • MR.mr
    5 years ago

    2 things, one your body can be attracted when your mind isn't.

    Guys get boners from everything, everywhere. Awkward boners in church are the worst.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    It's perfectly normal and certainly nothing to be ashamed of!

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  • Mark92
    5 years ago

    Not normal if you are both dudes, its disgusting.... If you are a girl its hot...

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    • TheShyGirlFromWork
      5 years ago

      How dare you say "not normal if you are both dudes, it's disgusting'. Your opinion of a guy being sexually attracted to another guy has nothing to do with normal. IF the guy is either gay or bi-sexual, then it's normal.

      Good for you if you think "if you are a girl its hot", but your comment doesn't help the OP. You did nothing, but state your opinion - which is not only bigoted, but also wrong about what is and isn't normal.

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      • Mark92
        5 years ago

        I sades whatever i want and I stand bye it, dont like it, dont read it, I have every right to say whatever I want and your case (considering you are the op), and both are dudes, is just disgusting, I have every right to give my comment since this is a place to comment and no one can or has the right to change my views, you are no one to tel me what I should consider normal and not normal!

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        • Checkmate_King
          5 years ago

          Keep up the good work irritating SJW's. Thumbs UP.

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          • Mark92
            5 years ago

            Ty bro :)! We all have the right to state our opinions. This is a debate, ofc not everyone will think of it as normal, thats why it is is it normal, to voice our opinions what it is to us, and I have every right to speak my mind that is is not normal...

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      • Sly2uc
        5 years ago

        Shy girl, how dare you get offended by someone else’s opinion that differs from yours. Shame on you. 🖕🏻

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      • Checkmate_King
        5 years ago

        SJW calling people bigots. Nice. Tolerant. Well adjusted.

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      • Not_normal_ash
        5 years ago

        It's never normal , and this agenda that going through the world won't make it normal !!
        U can say whatever
        It's not

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Next time he does this you should fart on him!

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    • EnglishLad
      5 years ago

      Just how I like it! Vulgar and filthy!

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  • Handyman
    5 years ago

    Do not turn your back on him!

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  • McBean
    5 years ago

    Put some distance between you and your friend. That boner is a bad sign.

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