Is it normal for men to "come" so fast?

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I have been playing around with this guy I'm friends with for almost a year now. We aren't dating, but we are attracted to each other and we have been getting physical (He is actually the first man I've ever been with; all my previous partners were also females). Mostly, our sex life so far has consisted of me sucking him off (frequently) and him fingering me. We finally got the opportunity to have full on sex, but it didn't turn out like I thought it would! It started with our usual foreplay and oral, but as soon as he got the tip of his dick into me, he groaned and said "Ugh it's so tight..." And then he pulled out and came on me. He didn't even get the whole thing in me! It lasted less than 5 seconds probably. I'm not mad at him, I mean maybe it just felt so nice in there that he couldn't help it. But is coming that quickly normal? Like before the whole penis even gets in there?

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  • derpyderp
    8 years ago | pl

    Poor bastard.
    I hope you were nice about it.
    Can be a sensitive subject for us guys.

    Agree with others that if he can get hard again soon after he should last longer.
    One problem is it can be so embarrassing that you lose the urge to try again.
    Just make sure he gets back in there & keeps at it...

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  • MisterPapaya
    8 years ago | pl

    All men are different. Even the wettest, tightest vagina I've been in never made me cum that fast. I've even done anal and even though that was pure heaven it took a while and some work to make me cum.

    He just has to work at it. Or even if he cums fast there's no reason you guys can't wait 20 minutes and try again. There's a good chance he'll last longer with an empty tank.

    Good luck!

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago | pl

    He sounds very young and inexperienced. How about you get him off before the foreplay, then he should be OK by the time you are ready. If it continues, get him to think of anything but what y'all are doing. Bills he needs to pay, a ticket he might have to pay; anything but sexy thoughts.
    Premature ejaculation is common and treatable if it continues.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      Actually he's about ten years older than I am... So I don't think its that he's inexperienced. He is really good at pleasing me during foreplay and we have great chemistry. But I'm hoping the next time he can keep going a little longer. I was eager to see what it would feel like all the way inside me, but I stil don't know :/ sigh.

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago | pl

        Yeah, well the thinking thing helps. You should be able to find tons on PE on the web. Those days are way behind me, so that's my only advice.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    8 years ago | pl

    Aw of course I was nice! I told him that I'm flattered he thought it felt so nice inside me, and that the foreplay was fantastic. I think he was nervous because it was the first time we tried it. (First time with each other, at least.)

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  • regisphilbin
    8 years ago | pl

    maybe your pussy is really tight

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      Well I've never had anything as big as a penis inside me before, so I guess that might be it.

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  • stopandthink
    8 years ago | pl

    Yes it's normal, particularly if the foreplay was intense and your vagina tight.

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  • krookdik
    8 years ago | pl

    The only other time I heard anything like this was something in the story of Christmas and the awesomeness of the conception 9 months before the virgin birth.

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  • farkelu
    8 years ago | pl

    Tell him it's ok and help him slow down a little next time by talking to him. It will take some of the pressure off. And practice. And tell us about it!

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  • moonknight1996
    8 years ago | pl

    if he says it again take a strap on and give him anal hard!!!!

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  • Lariii
    8 years ago | pl

    I don't think it's normal. Maybe try less foreplay, or him jacking off a few hours before sex?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      That's the thing, he jerked off that very morning! So I thought he wouldn't be so quick to cum. But it happened as soon as he started to go in...

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