Is it normal for me to be masturbating up to 3 times a week?

I feel terribly guilty every time I do it

Is It Normal?
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  • If you want to know what's "normal", here's a table showing how often people of both sexes masturbate broken down by age ranges:

    https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/women-masturbation-statistics-fivethirtyeight_n_5445530?ri18n=true

    Bear in mind that the numbers there are only accurate if everyone responding to the survey was honest. Unfortunately, you're not the only one who feels guilty about masturbating, so I suspect all the figures are on the low side.

    I'm a guy in my sixties, and I've been in the "more than four times a week" category ever since I discovered masturbation in my teens. In fact, from my teens and into my thirties, normal for me was at least twice a day when I wasn't in a sexual relationship.

    It has done me no harm at all. In fact, I suspect my perpetual lack of sexual tension helps to explain why I've always been quite a calm guy and I've never behaved like a desperate, entitled asshat with women.

    It's your body and you have the right to do whatever you want with it. No matter what sex-negative religious whackjobs and the NoFap idiots may say, there has never been a shred of medical evidence to support the idea that regular masturbation is harmful to either physical or mental health.

    As with all things, it's a matter of balance. If masturbation should ever become the most important thing in your life and the need to masturbate starts to affect your life in general, then there would be cause for concern. But giving yourself sexual pleasure in private whenever the urge strikes you is not unhealthy, and there's no reason to feel guilty about it.

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  • lol i do 3 times in a day and you're worried about doing it that many times in one week?

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  • Only 3 times a week? Lol thats not much to me

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  • its not normal to feel guilty about it. Sex and sexual acts are just a normal part of life

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  • masturbation is not wrong or sinful and you can do it as many times as you need to. yet a little help sometimes makes it feel better and helps a lot.

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  • ABSULUTELY NOT THOSE ARE ROOKIE NUMBERS I WOULD CONSIDER THREE TIMES A DAY LOW DESGUSTING BEHAVIOURS START BY GETTING UP TO AT LEAST FIVE THEN WE CAN TALK ABOUT YOU FEELING GUILTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • Bro, that shit aint right. You left out some other days of the week.

    Actually tho, sexual libido can change from person to person. Sometimes i can go 3x in one day. Others Times Ill go 4 days with no pleasure.

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  • Of course it’s not normal, there’s 7 days in a week, so what do you do on the other 4 days?

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  • I feed the chickens on average nearly once every other day.
    You just wank off as much as you want in the privacy of your own home.

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  • That's alot. I masterbate maybe once a month to be honest

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    • Do you jerk off or finger. Its unclear at this point.

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    • Curious. You are a very confused individual that needs psychological help. You think you are a girl. Yet you are a man. You were born with a dick and balls. You cant type half the time sooo what to think. I love ya but we have limits.

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      • Haha finger, jerking does very little for me. You are right about that though. I seriously need to buy a new phone. Between all the cracks, auto correct and my own shitty spelling it's a less than ideal combination. Let's just say I dont do anything important on here.

        Is the basis for me needing physiological help causs I'm trans in your opinion? I'm genuinely curious.

        Besides I should only have a set for another few years assuming everything goes down correctly with my plan.

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        • Yes. As a gay girl I think you are really fucked up. I like you but it is hard to read your shit most of the time. and yes you are a boy.

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          • I'll work on that. I hate spell checking but your right.

            Haha well that's cause gays dont want us. If you ever meet a tranny who says otherwise just keep walking cause you'll end up in a pointless argument. But historically weve always been here. We are a natural part of this world no matter how odd it may seem. I dont particularly love being trans you know.
            But it's part of life for me and I deal. Even if nobody wanted me cause I am trans I would be ok with that. I just live my life in peace you know?

            What I truly know is I was miserable as a boy in every way. I thought about my future I was always female in these thoughts. So I ended up transitioning after an "argument" with myself and it was scary and difficult at first. I mean defying 19 years of how you were raised and social standards forced in ya isnt the easiest thing it's scary. But everything is perfect now. I'm beyond happy and for once in my life I feel normal.

            So hate all you want but it wont affect my happiness:)

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            • Are you like one of them big (obviously was man) trans with a big adam's apple or are you like, I would just think you were a chick if I seen you type trans?

              What about public places, do you use the womens toilet? Do you use the womens change room?

              When your man has sex and obviously sticks it in your bum, do you then turn him around and fuck him in the bum?

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