Is it normal for me and bff to hold hands, kiss, cuddle (sleep cuddling)

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Me and my bff literally JUST MET, and we got VERY close VERY fast. My friend is very affectionate. WE ARE BOTH GIRLS. She has talked to me about kissing (either on the cheek, or just a peck on the lips (NOT making out). And at our last sleepover, we kissed. Just a closed-mouth peck on the lips, not a make out session. But we kissed a lot at random times throughout the day (still closed-mouth) My mom thinks I'm gay because we talk ALL the time, and we say I LOVE YOU all the time (which I know is normal but i guess she doesn't..) and when we were together, my mom saw her scratching my forearms (which feels good) and said it was "disturbing" whatever.. But is this normal, or are we gay? We might take things too far sometimes i know. And we also say "I'll go gay for you.. only you though.." but we are joking. and we call each other hot all the time. Is this normal

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    9 years ago

    Go all the way with her and post pics.

    But seriously. If you guys are attracted to each other and you are both saying you'd go gay for each other, why not see how far you guys can go until shit gets weird? It already sounds like you guys have chemistry.

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  • LegacyRafe
    5 years ago

    It depends. Me and my friend have kissed on the cheek but only like twice and it didn't mean anything

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  • Mersaphe
    9 years ago

    Yum lesbians.

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    Holding hands and stuff are fine. The kissing, though, isn't that normal (even if it is just a quick peck). However, kissing is also used as a greeting for some countries, but I don't think the two of you are using it in that way.

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  • hayday06
    9 years ago

    No i AM comfortable with it Pika-girl. But when we hold hands and stuff, NEITHER of us feel any sexual attraction. I KNOW we arent gay, either of us. My question is are we maybe going too far?

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  • Pika-girl
    9 years ago

    ...My friend is lesbian. I'm straight... She says she loves me. I have feelings for someone else. She's too possessive, always making me hold hands and hug her. I just need alone time.

    And I think she's lying that she's lesbian. Whenever I talk to the one I like, she would just jump in and talk over me or just copy what I'm sayinh and say it at the same time. IT'S SO ANNOYING!

    But you still are friends, right? And you're not comfortable with it. So, just tell her that you can't be in a relationship and you want to stay friends! There! It'll be easy because you're very close!

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  • lilmich
    9 years ago

    Does she know you are not in a relationship?

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  • hayday06
    9 years ago

    No we say that as a joke! We are both interested in boys! We are not sexually attracted to each other. I think she is beautiful, but girls think other girls are beautiful all the time. Some people say we are possessive over each other, but that is just a playful act we put on with each other, its nothing serious. Basically, is a quick peck on the lips, cuddling, holding hands etc normal for 2 REALLY CLOSE girl bffs?

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