Is it normal for him to be asking about intimacy after two dates?

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I've met up with a guy I met on a dating app two times now, we met for a coffee, and then I saw him again for a movie last night. Today I got a message from him saying that he wanted us to be more touchy-feely and I'm feeling weird about it. Am i being unreasonable or is it normal to be worried about intimacy levels after only meeting a person two times?

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  • FORUMidableFuckthemods
    7 years ago | pl

    If you have to ask the question you know its weird.

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  • BlackyHancock
    7 years ago | pl

    It's the fact that he has had to ask you about it that makes it weird/creepy. If he said nothing and just went to the point of holding hands etc on your next date it might be ok if there's mutual attraction.

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  • CheyChey
    7 years ago | pl

    If by touchy feely he means holding hands I think that's pretty normal especially if you are looking at pursuing a romantic relationship but these things come naturally so I would not worry about if I were you. Make out etc but within the bounds of what you're comfortable with. My bf and I met online and on the first date we held hands in the movies till we both got sweaty palms lol. He initiated it but it was nice.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago | pl

    Yeah that sounds really good to me, if I were you I would ask him to Define what touchy-feely means to him.

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  • kujo
    7 years ago | pl

    Dating app means fucking

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  • Thorolf
    7 years ago | pl

    It's just affection. Sounds normal to me.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago | pl

    Asking like that seems a little weird but most relationships progress to intimacy eventually or they end. Nothing weird about that.

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