Is it normal for guys to respond to insults this way?

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I'm already having baby daddy drama/issues at 6 weeks of pregnancy lol. Told him am keeping it, he said to count him out(as expected) I'm totally keeping it still. This guy would never respond to my insults at all. If he does it's just okay or thanks . When I get the chance I tell him everything I could. He even told his best friend how much I hurt him with my many insults. I wonder why he does nothing, trust me i've seen this man angry at people, fighting, super aggressive etc. That's how I expect him to behave yet he doesn't react that way.. I provoke him, push him out of my way today I told him I would like to throw up on him he said am welcomed anytime, my dear hormones can't stand him and all he's done to me is still hurtful.. Guys what is this?? Iin?

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  • charli.m
    6 years ago | pl

    I feel so sorry for that poor damn baby. Grow the fuck up for the sake of your child.

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  • CarlTheBugFucker
    6 years ago | pl

    Would you prefer he slap you upside the head?

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    • cutegalsly
      6 years ago | pl

      Yes, I would like to see that side.. Besides that's how he's like with other people.

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      • CarlTheBugFucker
        6 years ago | pl

        I suggest you try slapping yourself upside the head.

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        • cutegalsly
          6 years ago | pl

          No need, however I did try slapping him today.. It turned out funny to me cz he did nothing about it .. Almost missed it.. He just walked away. The fact that he doesn't want me to have my baby cz he wants his freedom to be with other girls.. That brings out all the demons inside of me.

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago | pl

        So you want him to be violent toward you? No, that's probably just your hormones making you crazy.

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  • stevethomp
    6 years ago | pl

    It makes so much sense to me. You insult him and you try to provoke him - you want him to react. The best way he can get back to you is not respond or react the way you want him to. It seems to drive you crazy. Please consider adoption for your innocent baby.

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  • bucketfullofassholes
    6 years ago | pl

    You are a piece of shit, that man deserves something better.

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    • RoseIsabella
      5 years ago | pl

      Regardless of whether or not OP is a piece of shit that man is a massive piece of shit, because he's the idiot who knocked her up, and he's not a real man, because he isn't accepting responsibility for his actions. He's a lowlife scumbag.

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      • DoctorPunk
        5 years ago | pl

        Sorry, but it takes two to tangle and this is only one half his fault. He got roped into this pregnancy because she lied about birth control. This happened to me. The insults confirm that she has no respect for him. His lack of responsiveness makes perfect sense.

        Please correct your statement by saying they are BOTH lowlife scumbags.

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        • RoseIsabella
          5 years ago | pl

          How do you know she lied about birth control? Where exactly does it say that she lied?

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          • DoctorPunk
            5 years ago | pl

            I don't know, and there is a chance that she didn't. But her behavior is characteristic of cases where this happens. Please note that I agree with you that the boyfriend is also a lowlife. I see three cases.

            1. They stay together with the baby. DISASTER.
            2. They separate and she keeps the baby. DISASTER.
            3. She gives the baby up for adoption. RELIEF.

            Hopefully, she won't damage her baby's brain with alcohol while she is pregnant. Because she is a lowlife, this is a very real risk.

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            • RoseIsabella
              5 years ago | pl

              Well, the thing is that you have no proof of what you're accusing her of here. Regardless, people ought not to be having casual sex, especially not casual sex without condoms.

              Yes, I too think that adoption is the best option here.

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    • cutegalsly
      6 years ago | pl

      I may be a piece of Shit.. But this is real life.. Abandoning your unborn doesn't make you a hero.

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  • Rihyae
    6 years ago | pl

    Males have the option of birth control now you know.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago | pl

    He's kinda asking for it by saying he won't help her.

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  • pounderboy
    6 years ago | pl

    Fucking without future planing.bringing another another victim to this fuck up world.shit.another mistaking child.fuck.

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    • cutegalsly
      6 years ago | pl

      You were the mistake child.. Mine will be well provided for.. Fuck you for talking Shit about my unborn...

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  • bucketfullofassholes
    6 years ago | pl

    And you sound like my crazy neighbor that screams at her partner every fucking night.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago | pl

    Maybe he knows you're right about him regarding those insults despite the fact that the insults hurt him? I dunno how old ya'll are, but it sounds like he needs to man up, and assume some responsibility. I'm sure he's afraid of being a father, but he should have thought of that sooner.

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    • cutegalsly
      6 years ago | pl

      I'm 23 he's 26..he also once said maybe am right.

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago | pl

        He's very immature. If you have your baby, and choose to keep it be sure to sue his sorry ass for child support.

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  • surreypro
    6 years ago | pl

    You seem like a very troubled person.

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    • cutegalsly
      6 years ago | pl

      Isn't that so obvious? Thinking about giving life or taking it away that troubles all the nerves out of me.

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      • surreypro
        6 years ago | pl

        Why do you insult him? This seems very unnecessary.

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        • RoseIsabella
          5 years ago | pl

          He's kinda asking for it by sayin he won't help her.

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        • cutegalsly
          6 years ago | pl

          The truth hurts.. I just talk to him about being a future deadbeat.
          He did apologize today for telling me to get rid of my baby.

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          • surreypro
            6 years ago | pl

            You don't know his future, or yours. Even if he is going to be one, which nobody knows, how can it help to say unkind things? There is never any need to say hateful or unkind things, even if you think they are true.

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            • cutegalsly
              6 years ago | pl

              Because even during all this.. He still going out there trying to get laid by anything that passes infront of me. Such a man whore my parents even know he is, yet they have no idea im having a baby with him.

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  • Dunga
    6 years ago | pl

    Insults themselves dont have an impact on me, but the thought that the insult er will think he go to me does annoy me. Just tell him you do not care what he thinks and his opinion doesn' matter to anyone but himself...

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  • CreamPuffs
    6 years ago | pl

    That's one of the reasons why I'm glad to be bisexual. I don't have to worry about getting my mate pregnant if I choose correctly.

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