Is it normal for grown men to be hatefully obsessed with you?

Why do people do this? I've known adult men on various sites who will spend a considerable amount of their time posting hateful assumptions towards specific users who have upset them in some way. Sometimes it will go on for YEARS. They are not "just trolling", because you can tell they are trying really hard to get some feelings of indignation across. What is the mentality behind this? Don't they realise how pathetic and hypocritical they look, trying to dog someone else when they are obviously just as bad or worse?

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Comments ( 41 )
  • RoseIsabella

    They're probably just lonely, sexually frustrated, pathetic losers.

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    • nikkiclaire

      😂

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      • RoseIsabella

        It's funny, because it's true!
        😉

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        • nikkiclaire

          In all sincerity, that's sad though. No one should have to go through life like that.

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          • RoseIsabella

            Women shouldn't have to go through life being harassed, by loser creepazoids who think that women ought to feel flattered by the attention. Yuck!

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    • Emokate

      I am a lonely, pathetic, sexless loser and I don't go in for this kind of stuff. Must be a guy thing.

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      • nikkiclaire

        You are not pathetic or a loser.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Good going, girl! I can't stand how certain types of males feel entitled to act like sore losers, while women are expected to try to meet societies high stands, put up with creepers and deal with criticism with a smile on their faces. Ugh.

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  • Emokate

    The world is full of creepers just waiting to attack you. Be careful!! If given the chance they may kill you!

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    • RoseIsabella

      * hears Goodbye Horses*
      :-/

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  • Neuria

    A lot of people don't want to admit this but your online interactions are actually a part of your life. There are a lot of people in this world who never fully develop despite being over 18. I don't get mad at them though because what adult really gets mad at a child.

    The mass of men lead quiet lives of desperation - Henry David Thoreau

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  • Whatintarnation

    They're probably single, working a dead end job with an asshole boss. The only joy they find is in making other people feel as shitty as they are. My theory anyway. I've haven't done any extensive study on this issue.

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    • I'd be surprised if people like that were able to hold a job at all.

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      • insanebotv21

        The internet is not an accurate representation of a person's day life.

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  • They try and improve their own worth by belittling others. It’s the same as people coming up with fake personas or multiple alts and thinking they are fooling people, when they are only fooling themselves. Just losers.

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    • FishandOtherDogs

      Styrofoam is one of the most incompetent users on this site, if not the most witless of all. You're opinions are invalid, everyone knows that. Nobody in your life listens to anything you say so you try to become some sort of internet counselor. You're in no position to give counsel in any area of your life let alone anyone else's. I know you personally, to you I may seem a mere acquaintance, but that's where your sadly mistaken. I can't wait until the next time I see you and secretly laugh in your face because I know everything you've written online and my internal laughter will be priceless because you have no idea the things I know about you. You're a sorry loser. Jesus, haha. Imbecile, we laugh at you.

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      • Awww how cute, I triggered an IIN troll. Now let me think, who could it be?
        Hmmmm, I guess I’ll never ever figure out who created another alt just to post this.
        You honor me with the effort and thank you for the tribute.

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        • FishandOtherDogs

          Oh believe me I'm just visiting. In town for pleasure if you will. This sort of thing is pointless, if you understand which may be hard for you. I can't find the decency in me to give you a clue as to my identity, yet I will in time. You know when someone says "see you later" and then somewhat of a senseless comment ensues, which is "not if I see you first" well this is one of those times the person says they'll be seeing you first actually means it. I'm glad you think it's a joke though, you have a winning sense of humor, well at least this whole ordeal will be funny for one of us.

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          • Your childish rambling prose gave you away and now you’re butt hurt too. Booohoooo.

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    • Emokate

      You're one of these people tho. I have watched you pester someone who clearly didn't like you. You are a bully too so I don't know why you act all normal.

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      • Nope. I don’t bully anyone. I told you that I didn’t want you to have regrets that’s all, in another post.
        I will call out bullshitters that are fooling the impressionable ppl here. There are a lot of fake posters here, do you know what I mean? You’re smart, I think you probably do know what I mean. Right?

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        • Emokate

          I wasn't talking about your comments to me.

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          • Then what? You lost me.

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  • nikkiclaire

    I don't know, but it happens to me all the time, I usually give in and fight back, because hey, even they deserve to masturbate.

    My guess is they feel slighted by something and now get their jollies thinking they upset users. They are the true trolls.

    And no, I am not O.P.

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    • It's just annoying how some people feel the need to project their own insecurities onto those who are otherwise happy. "Oh, your life doesn't meet my standards of perfection, yet you're happy?! You must be a disgusting piece of shit!" type of thinking.

      I don't think they are trolls, because trolls are usually funny. They just seem bitter.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Yeah, there are a lot of funny trolls out there.

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      • nikkiclaire

        I don't mind when someone disagree's. The people who do ad Hominem attacks and take no stance or an opposing stance just because, are the people who are messed up.

        It's no big deal, but they mess up the site and make it less enjoyable.

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        • Yep. I have seen at least a couple users on this site who have some kind of vendetta against other users and frequently reply to them in multiple different topics, using straw man arguments they've based on other posts that have no relevance to the one they're in. It's very annoying and childish and I wish the management would just throw these people out already.

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          • Bazinga

            I have had trouble with repeated attacks from a specific user. Blocking her worked well. Why don't you try it? Go to their user page and click the block user link.

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            • Nah, I report them instead. I'm not bothered by what they say (in fact it's pretty entertaining), I'm bothered by how delusional they are. People need to learn that there are consequences to their stupidity.

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            • nikkiclaire

              I have one person blocked just to shut em up, but for the most part that does no good. I'll unblock later.

              I am sure they just get off "tricking" me with an alt anyway so it's pointless.

              The best thing to do is disengaged. But I am stubborn and weak 😂

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  • horny_simpletons

    Either ignore ppl like this or tell them to grow up. Sadly this is somewhat of a common occurrence but it's ridiculous.

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  • Seahawksfan56

    I don't often deal with people like this. I don't get into these situations. Try not to get into situations like that. Oh no! I just did it. Sorry. Sounds like you're happy, keep doing you.

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  • Nickvey

    move on please

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