Is it normal for girls to hate me?

Hiya! I'm an 18 year old girl, and I am super nice. I try to be friendly, and im usually smiling. Everyone says I'm the sweetest girl they have ever met, however, girls tend to hate me. I have many girl friends who love me and I love them, but they have all admited to hating me when we first met. Why do girls hate me? Is this normal?

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Comments ( 141 )
  • Ratmanparoled

    Troll. Too much with the Barbie doll persona. You are being nauseating on purpose. I would even bet a guy wrote this troll. Not bad though dude. But the little purple hearts were just too over the top.

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    • Fetiza000

      ''purple hearts''

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    • fakeaccount2

      Yeah I've made a few bait posts of this premise a couple years back already.. OP is either a troll, 12-13 years old, and/or autistic

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      • BeautifulDreamer612

        I'm a real 18 year old girl who is fortunate enough to be born healthy.

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        • fakeaccount2

          Most likely Girls don't like you cuz they're straight, so you'd be useless to them.

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          • BeautifulDreamer612

            What about friendship though?

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    • BeautifulDreamer612

      Hi☺️.! I'm being serious lol. The hearts are red ❤️

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      • Ratmanparoled

        I rest my case. Troll.

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        • sararyan7242

          Ratmanparoled is a known troll.

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        • Copperline

          She already proved she was real in chat. And wrote a username on her and posted picture.

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          • BlackCatsAreAwesome

            Copper line lol. Ian? Puffs?

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          • BeautifulDreamer612

            Awe thanksies ❤️💕❤️

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        • BeautifulDreamer612

          I'm just a girly girl 😂

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    • Pumpurrnickel

      This is the very first time you've even talked to her. Just because you've never met someone so nice, doesn't mean she's a troll. But I shouldn't be arguing with a troll in the first place, I guess.

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      • BeautifulDreamer612

        Awe 😍 You are sooooo sweet 💕

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    • Someth1ngRecogn1zable

      A troll wouldn't be so soft and gently

      ...except if OP is a professional who gets sexually aroused by compliments.

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      • BeautifulDreamer612

        Awe ❤️ Thanks for backing me up. That's very nice of you ☺️

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        • Someth1ngRecogn1zable

          I feel very confused now... did I feed the troll?

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          • BeautifulDreamer612

            Im sorry 😞

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            • Someth1ngRecogn1zable

              Oh well, at least I can play "find the difference" on your question every 10 minutes since you change it a lot ;)

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  • rayb12

    Usually when a person is really nice to you its because you are special to them or they especially like you.

    But when a person gets treated really nice and then sees that's how that person treats everyone they feel tricked and let down and some will immaturely hate that person.

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    • BeautifulDreamer612

      Wow ❤️ You are like the first person to actually answer my question 🤗 Thanks

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      • rayb12

        There is now a full post regarding this sir.

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        • BeautifulDreamer612

          I'm a miss

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          • rayb12

            https://www.isitnormal.com/post/the-problems-with-being-nice-259318 this is it.

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            • BeautifulDreamer612

              That's an interesting post

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        • rayb12

          Also sorry to hear these haters. You dont deserve that, fuck the haters

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          • BeautifulDreamer612

            Lol you are right, but it still kinda bothers me.00

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  • edwininthematrix

    girls hate you because they are jealous. maybe you are just around a lot of stuck up bitchy girls. anyway, guys are cool and there a lot guys who will be your friend without trying to take advantage of you or something like that. basically both genders can be bad so try to stay away from the bitchy girls and the jerk guys. good luck!

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    • BeautifulDreamer612

      Awe thanks haha ❤️ Yeah guys are great friends 🙂
      I don't understand why girls would be jealous though

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  • Friedchiken

    You seem fake as fuck. It's just my opinion but as an 18 year old girl I can't stand people that are constantly chip and bubbly and loud. It just makes me feel like they're being fake and pretend with me. They're too big of kiss ass's and try hards.

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    • BeautifulDreamer612

      I can totally see how I seem fake lol.

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      • Friedchiken

        Yeah it's not a good thing lol.

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        • BeautifulDreamer612

          I know, but how can I seem more genuine?

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          • Someth1ngRecogn1zable

            Eat their parents and then ask if they also want some

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  • NashamaTheWeird

    You seem nice, but some people probably honestly find you a little bit fake. You don't have to try hard to impress people. Most people appreciate genuineness.

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    • BeautifulDreamer612

      Awe thank you 🙂

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  • S12207

    Usually just simply jealousy lol that's it

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    • BeautifulDreamer612

      Why would they be jealous

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  • Fetiza000

    Stop trolling pls, this is just nauseating.

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    • BeautifulDreamer612

      I'm not trolling

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  • Ellasmokesweeed

    You are just too nice, from experience, we had girls like that and they were nice, smiley = cheesy. To their faces people would be cool, but behind their backs the girls dug in them - made fun of them. Your 18 anyway, so you don't need them, they are frauds.

    You have two choices, you can either ignore them, or do what they do. Soon when you meet a man you'll forget all about them. I mean come off it you are 18. Soon you'll be 19 then 20 and the years just keep on going by. I used to know a few jerks back in the day and we don't even speak anymore. So you can either ignore them and continue to be your happy lucky go self or become a biatch.

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    • BeautifulDreamer612

      I'll continue being me lol ❤️

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  • Tiaaaa

    In my opinion, I feel like you're to peppy-happy and to me that would be very annoying. Maybe that's your personality, I don't know. But I wouldn't really want to be around you either if you're that annoying girl that has a high voice and acts like a Disney princess, lmao.

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    • BeautifulDreamer612

      That is me lol

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  • insanebotv21

    You want to know why, well to put it simply you're so fucking saccharine you could make anyone to vomit. Reading this post is like snorting powdered sugar.

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    • BeautifulDreamer612

      But guys all have no problem with me

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      • insanebotv21

        Yeah cause they all have enough testosterone to balance it out. Either you have massive tits or you're too perky to realize when someone's just being polite.

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        • BeautifulDreamer612

          I was voted homecoming and prom queen though.

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          • insanebotv21

            Well good for you, you're just perfect for that position. Wonder how many other positions you had to try to get it.
            That last line was too harsh and is not entirely sincere, but it is funny as hell so i'm keeping it.

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            • BeautifulDreamer612

              Lol ok 😂

              Its just that girls hate me at first but once they get to know me they like me.

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  • EnglishLad

    I think girls are generally quite loathing of those who are percieved as "better than them". They like to feel good about themselves and see other women as competition, especially if they are better looking with a personality to match.

    It's a dog-eat-dog world and this kind of one-up-manship is very common wherever you go.

    You keep doing you and ignore the haters. You can't please everybody.

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    • BeautifulDreamer612

      Awe you are really nice. Thank you! 💕

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  • Ellasmokesweeed

    You'll meet a man or a "wo-man". I don't know your username seems a little lessy...

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    • BeautifulDreamer612

      Hm?

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  • Nickvey

    whether you like it or not your competition in life is other women. you are a constant threat to women . if you are nice to them you will be nice to a man , thats where they will lose out. see only so many penis exist. a penis is extra income and a pleasure stick. you can get one if you are nice to men. some women just cant do that and so you are their enemy. and it gets complicated because women keep their friends close , but they keep their enemies even closer.

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    • BeautifulDreamer612

      That's scary lol

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  • Recludeded

    Why that’s beautiful dreamer posting.

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    • BeautifulDreamer612

      Hehe hiiiiiiiii ☺️

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      • Copperline

        Code for noodz...

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        • BeautifulDreamer612

          Maybe it was 😉

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        • BeautifulDreamer612

          Seriously 😂

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  • Unicorn_Sprinkles

    I feel like they're just jealous that you have this awesome self-esteem, and personality. I would be. They probably are being mean because they don't want you around their boys. "MY SENPAI!"

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    • BeautifulDreamer612

      Awe you are soooo cute ❤️

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  • platov

    ask them? why ask us. put ur pic

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    • BeautifulDreamer612

      Why put my pic? And I had an essay to right about the this.

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      • platov

        some girl hate pretty girl because envy. and they hate average girl because they can

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        • BeautifulDreamer612

          Oh ☺️

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  • Maybe you're so nice that they think you're fake, and trying way too hard.

    You mentioned people think you're really sweet- the girls may be jealous of that, or be annoyed that you seem too perfect.

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    • BeautifulDreamer612

      That makes sense 😁
      Thank you

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  • McBean

    They hate you because you can steal their men away. Ironically, expressing this hate only incentivizes you to do it.

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    • BeautifulDreamer612

      I don't steal their men?

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  • Ratmanunleashed

    Because I'm just unleashed from a county jail in Jersey. I want to through a party.

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    • What'd you do?

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  • Ratmanunleashed

    I mean throw a party.

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    • BeautifulDreamer612

      Kk

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