Is it normal for boyfriend to check his ex instagram daily

That means hes not over the ex

Just tell him. He probably knows.

Please tell me your not the girl with the abusive, heroin addict guy who's ten years older than you.

He might just be obsessed with his ex and have got a really unhealthy obsession with it. How long ago did they break up?

Maybe he hasn't moved on. Maybe he did. Sometimes these things are caused by triggers. And trust me, there always is a trigger. Maybe in the last week, his ex was on his mind could be of a trigger of like "best year" or "the day we met".

I don't know you or your boyfriend personally so I can only speak from experience.

I moved on from my ex years ago but I still think about her from time to time, nothing crazy but I just think about it. But I don't stalk her on social media though.

It's up to you whether you wanna speak to your boyfriend about this. But if you wanna bring it up, maybe bring it up casually? Like tell him you were going to do check a cake recipe on the laptop and when you opened the internet his ex:es Instagram account was opened up and he was signed in.

That way he doesn't get the impression that you were spying on him. But if he's not over his ex, then no matter how painful it may be, you gotta cut the relationship otherwise one of you are gonna get hurt.

Not the best sign

Misses her or is just curious.

People do get curious.

I would say there’s still some attachment there.

Unfortunately it's not uncommon that people head into a new relationship in order to get over their ex, which means they aren't over them. It's not fair to you as that's pretty much emotional cheating because he's not fully devoted to you emotionally and if she was interested in him again you can't trust that he's gonna ignore her. So you're not delusional. And you weren't really snooping he was logged in and being a little curious is normal, most people would've done the same thing and you should definietely confront him.

Start checking out your ex’s page frequently and leave your account logged in so he sees. If he’s bothered by it, you can bring up him checking out his ex.

Well, like, you don't trust him. Otherwise you wouldn't give a shit and want to confront him.

Dude that's men! I have no sympathy for women who expect anything different.
In fact you women act like it's a surprise every time shit like this happens! It's you women who need a reality check and are delusional if you expect anything different 🖕