Is it normal for a woman to go without penetrative sex for over six years?

78% Normal
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I lost my virginity when I was 20. Six months down the line I left the relationship with nothing but a few dissapointing sex sessions. Soon after I started masturbating and experienced my very first orgasm by stimulation aided by erotic literature. It has now been nearly seven years where I have depended solely on myself for my sexual needs. I read and watch erotica regularly and fantasise about being dominated and various positions. I pass guys on the street, in church, at work and conjure up images in my head. I often feel like meeting up with a random guy for a one night stand but I worry about regretting it later and I fear he might leave me dissapointed.Then there is the fact that another guy -who is not my husband- will know me intimately. Is this normal ?

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78% Normal
Based on 18 votes (14 yes)
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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    I would like to look after your needs. All of them.

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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    get a boyfriend when you want one. Don't have sex if you'll regret it. Simple.

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  • davesumba
    10 years ago

    You need to get out more.

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  • DangerousPotatoGuy
    10 years ago

    six years seems to be quite a long time, Idk but it seems like your sex life with your last boyfriend didn't work out probably because of communication, it will work in your favor with your next partner if you let him know what gets you going.

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  • EccentricWeird
    10 years ago

    All sorts of alarms and flashing red lights just went off in my head.

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  • Eveyana
    10 years ago

    Are you married or single and are you fairly religious or would you consider actually being intimate with someone if you didn't have to worry about regretting it later?

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