Is it normal for a straight man to have had rough sex with a man in college?

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I am a straight man married to a beautiful woman. My wife and I are in our early 40s. I have always been straight.

However, when I was a college student in the mid-1990s, I had sex with a male roommate a few times. My roommate was gay and he got me to smoke pot for the first time. We were actually watching Saved By The Bell when he suggested we smoke some pot! While I was high, he came onto me. It disgusted me at first and I slapped him, but he seemed to like it and kept grabbing at my crotch. The next thing I knew, our pants were off and I was having rough anal sex with my roommate until I climaxed.

I felt disgusted about this afterward. However, I did get high with him a few more times and also had rough anal sex with him those times as well until the semester ended. It was weird that I slapped him around when he would come onto me, but he loved it for some reason.

I moved out at the end of the school year and never smoked pot or had sex with a man ever again.

I later got married and have had a loving relationship with my wife. I'm not rough at all with her - our sex is very tender and loving.

Is it normal for a straight man to have had rough sex with a man in college?

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  • imsoJealousofIman
    7 years ago

    Technically. if u were on drugs or drink. (altered) he raped you. whether it was forced or not. Drugs before consent is rape. just saying.

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    • Max2016
      7 years ago

      That's what I was thinking too. If OP wasn't in the mental state to make sound judgement and the other guy took advantage of him, it is definitely rape.

      @OP, try jerking off to gay porn. If you can't, you're definitely not gay and this wasn't normal. But if you can, then maybe you are bi.

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      • imsoJealousofIman
        7 years ago

        Technically it was without a doubt rape.

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  • bigfatdick4
    7 years ago

    My question to you is, "Do you miss fucking him hard in the arse?"

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  • _Mehhhh_
    7 years ago

    Tbh I'm pretty much of the view that "gay" is anyone who says they are, and nobody who says they aren't.

    If you've been happily married to a woman for so many years and you are comfortable in your sexual attraction to females, you have every right to claim being straight.

    Yeah sure you experimented a little bit back in college. If you left it at that and have no desire to pursue it again, then what's the worry? It is what it is.

    Also lots of gay men have had sex with women at some point, but we don't have this conversation about "is it normal I fucked her back then?" and we're still gay. (not me personally, I've never been with a woman, but lots of gays have).

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  • SirChazwick
    7 years ago

    I don't even know anymore.

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  • winky
    7 years ago

    Almost normal. When I was a college student one of my uncle's friend invited me in his house. After few drinks he touched me and started dirty things. It take few seconds for him to pull down my pant. He started licking my asshole. The pleasure was beyond my imagination. Ist time I believe that some one can lick my anus. After that I fucked his ass . Only that day I did it

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  • Who_Wouldn't_Bang_Bailey_Jay
    7 years ago

    sounds like ya'll was having mutual pleasure your definitely bi sexual fucking guys faces and assess hard in different positions but its ight im bi sexual too im jello

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  • Mike1212
    7 years ago

    Probably you are some how a gay but you are trying to hide it in between .

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  • kla631
    7 years ago

    I smoked pot and it loosens you up but doesn't take away your freedom of choice. I wouldn't say he raped you or you him, it was sexual experimentation, you both got off and you remained roommates even after your rough sex play until you moved out.

    Now you're married and happily so. Chock it up to experience and move on.

    Unless you're missing it?

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  • Perrier
    7 years ago

    Very normal. There is an old saying, "other guys are for having sex, sex with women are for having children."

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  • VirgilManly
    7 years ago

    This did not happen to me and probably most guys I know so I'm going to say "not normal" to this one.

    It just is what it is.

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  • ScreechPowers
    7 years ago

    This does not sound normal.

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  • Blade884
    7 years ago

    I said yes, but conditionally. Not sure about he rough part, but guys fool around all the time. I had a roommate that sucked me off all the time. He was gay, but not out of the closet. i think I told the story on here before.

    Looking back, I was so horny in college, and him sucking me off all the time really kept me grounded. AFter a while I really was able to fuck his mouth in all different positions. I even jerked him off while he was letting me fuck his mouth in a kinda 69 position.

    We never had anal though. That seemed very gay to me, and just too taboo for me to do. I didn't have the interest in it, and he never asked me, so that was that.

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