Just by asking us this question, I think you have shown us that you are overly concerned with her past. Something about it obviously makes you very uncomfortable.
For that reason, I'd say you should give this one a miss, because your attitude will one day come back to bite this relationship in the ass.
Hi from the OP. I do respect your opinion. Yes, I had considered your point of view. On the flip side is the fact that this fine lady was forthcoming with this info early in the relationship, with NO hint of hiding the past & hoping for the best. While the history doe NOT bother me personally, I am concerned as to how to (or not to) share this with family members. While deeply in love, neither of us wish to alienate my kids & grand kids. We are both willing to continue our relationship without legal sanctions. Thanks.
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Just by asking us this question, I think you have shown us that you are overly concerned with her past. Something about it obviously makes you very uncomfortable.
For that reason, I'd say you should give this one a miss, because your attitude will one day come back to bite this relationship in the ass.
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Hi from the OP. I do respect your opinion. Yes, I had considered your point of view. On the flip side is the fact that this fine lady was forthcoming with this info early in the relationship, with NO hint of hiding the past & hoping for the best. While the history doe NOT bother me personally, I am concerned as to how to (or not to) share this with family members. While deeply in love, neither of us wish to alienate my kids & grand kids. We are both willing to continue our relationship without legal sanctions. Thanks.
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Why on earth would your family members need to know about this? Not that it's anything to be ashamed of, but it is irrelevant to the person she now is