Is it normal for a married couple to enjoy a cuckold life

I'm a very happily married woman, to a wonderful husband. We live the cuckold lifestyle, and it's really helped our marriage.
What are your perceptions of how we live our life?

Is It Normal?
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  • If you were so happy you wouldn’t feel the need to make a post about it every 2 days

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    • I came to this site to gain an insight into peoples perception of how my husband and myself, live our lives. I'm also very interested in the phycological/philosophical aspects of our marriage.

      Please don't presume you know me, or how I "feel", but thanks for your opinion anyway.

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  • I think it’s incredibly hot. I would like to do this with my other half but she’s not up for it. She does do cuck talk when we’re having sex sometimes and that’s a major turn on but we’ve never done more than just talk about it during sex. I think from a male perspective it’s the fact that other men find my girl attractive enough to want to do that. Also that she may find other men attractive but I’m the one that gets to fuck her. Your both lucky, enjoy

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    • Thankyou, Elroy

      I think you have a very good sexual relationship with your girl, and it doesn't need to go any further than role playing the fantasy. It's great that the two of you can be honest with each other about your sexual desires. Not all couples can

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  • I think it's degenerate. I think you should have the right to do it, but still, I also think someone should have the right to jack off to eating shit if they want.

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  • You do you but in my opinion it's a caustic practice.

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    • Well I'm interested in all opinions, and thanks for yours. May I ask why you believe to be caustic?

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      • In my opinion it betrays basic trust within a relationship, sure you are banging someone withing concent of your guy, but on a primal level we like to have their partner and not share. Honestly its creates competition and a high degree of mistrust for the majority of outside observers for the practice.

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        • I believe our choice is very much predicated on the foundation of a strength of trust in each other.

          Surely the primal urge is to mate with those of the opposite sex that we desire? It does, in part, create a competition, which helps prove the point of a primal urge, but I love my husband, and he will not be replaced.

          I accept your point about the outside obsever, and understand the mistrust. This lifestyle isn't for everyone, and I would caution any couple considering it

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          • I'm more old fashioned. Though I really dont care about other peoples sex life.

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            • There's nothing wrong with being old fashioned, and it's good that you're not too judgemental on the sex lives of others. Thanks for your comments.

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  • Whatever works for yall. I dont see a big issue with it.

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  • I sounds like a good way to catch a sexually transmitted disease.

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    • Anyone can catch an STD and, thankfully, I have never caught one. You make a good point though. Everyone considering sex with another partner should enquire as to their sexual health.

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  • I think its awesome and sexy! Enjoy!

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  • I don’t understand how you could have any respect for your husband.

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    • Thanks for your comment, Throwingknives

      May I ask why you believe I shouldn't respect my husband? I wasn't forced into this lifestyle, I wanted it, just as much as he did.

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  • I would absolutely fucking hate this, even being on your side of it. No way I could sleep with some strange woman in front of my SO while making it evident that (or at least claiming that) this stranger is so much better than her. Seems abusive as fuck.

    That said, I understand this is somehow a real turn-on for some people. So if it's not just consensual but craved by both parties, I have no place telling you what to do.

    To me, yes, it definitely does sound weird though.

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    • Hi, and thanks for your comment.

      I believe there's a misconception about cuckolding (probably driven by porn) that the husband is a beta male, weaker than the bull, and so on. I can tell you that, for me personally, this isn't true. My husband is anything but a beta, and I would never dream of humiliating him, or he me.

      As for having sex with strangers? It does happen, but so to does engaging with men that we know. I have one partner that I meet once a week, every Friday, and he started out as a friend to both of us.

      I think "consenual", and "craved" is quite apt.

      I fully understand that people think it's weird, although the fantasy itself is quite common for both men and women.

      Thanks again for your reply

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      • Then what you're doing isn't cuckolding, but hotwifing. Cuckolding almost invariably involves an element of humiliation and is considered related to masochism (enjoying pain). It actually kind of hurts the cuck, but for whatever reason they desire this. I heard a horrible story about a guy who liked to have strange guys ejaculate on his wife's wedding ring while she laughed and he cried.

        Hotwifing (or hothusbanding) is simply enjoying watching your partner be with someone else.

        I'm unsure where I learned this as I've no interest in either but my brain collects all sorts of random information. But yeah, sounds like you're hotwifing then. Again, still not my thing, but you two have fun.

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        • Thanks, SoUNDS

          Cuckolding embraces different forms of a relationship with, at worst, a wife cheating on her husband. Yes, I'm a HW, but also in a cuckold relationship.

          Thanks again. You're a Gentleman.

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  • I could never respect a man like that.

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    • What sort of man do you envisage?

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      • An alpha type. A man that respects himself and his woman and doesn't let bs or nonsense in his bedroom or any other aspects of his life.

        Peoples kinks are fine for them, but not for me.

        P.s. are you nikkiclaire?

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        • Thanks for the reply, I honestly appreciate your time to do so, and your candour.

          My husband is very much an Alpha male, and I respect him hugely.
          Who is the final arbiter to judge what is right or wrong in my life, and that of my husband? Draw me to your source, and allow me to challenge you.
          If you really believe alpha males don't have sex on their minds, and that it doesn't effect aspects of their lives, then you have never been with one, nor do you understand the genetics.

          We all have kinks, even if it's simply a fantasy, unless we are Asexual, which is fair enough, but very rare.

          We can all pretend that sex is something that should be locked up in the cupboard, a dirty thing, something not to discuss, but to not challenge this Victorian enforced, puritanical, mindset, is to deny honest, and open discussion about a subject that is at the core of our lives.

          I honestly don't know who nikkiclaire is.

          Thanks again. I do understand your point of view, and it isn't without merit, but neither is mine. So why not discuss?

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  • Well first who did it help you or him? Watching the other be pleasure by someone else who is more sexier or hotter or well hung,is that both must be in 100%!!! shouldn't be ( i do it to make us happy) so enjoy it have fun

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    • See my reply above: "Both of us really...."

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      • So you the dominant one in this cuckold and it makes you happy?

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        • I'm only dominant in that I can refuse a menage a trois.

          The cuckold stereotype isn't true for all couples, and our marriage certainly contradicts that perception.

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          • Well go head mrs dominant, have fun enjoy and dont Care what others think it fun and sometimes a freaking rush if I could I would love to be in a cuckold relationship but she ain't into it#so sad

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            • I'm not a dominant. I don't care what others think, they can think what they like.

              If your wife isn't into it then it isn't possible. There are many other ways to spice up your life. Maybe have a hard think about pushing the boundaries in other ways.

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  • Both of us, really.

    Sexier and hotter isn't true for everyone. My lover certainly isn't either of those, but he does have a fantastic personality.

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