Is it normal for a man and a woman to share their mates with their friends?

Not talking about physically but mentally and emotionally.

John and Jane have a relationship but Jane goes back and talks to her friends about her relationship with John. Jane and all 5 of her friends put their minds together and contribute to what Jane does, how she acts, what she wants and responds to John. Little does John know, he has to make 6 females happy in everything he does, says, dreams and hopes for....then their is Jane's mother.

Is It Normal?
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  • Jane needs to grow up.

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  • so nobody is fucking anyone in this scenario? dam.

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  • Why not ?
    The Yankees pitchers did wife swapping in the 1970's.
    So , if it was okay in the 1970's , it certainly is okay 40 years later.

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  • Whay happened to Dick , Sally , Puff and Spot ?
    Suck a cock and make America great again.

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  • Fact 476: More people choke to death on condoms every year than are killed by lightning strikes, shark attacks and unicycle accidents combined.

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  • Sounds like John is whipped. Poor Jane having to put up with such a weak mate.

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    • Yeah you're right. John should slap the shit out of Jane, then dump her...like a real man

      If he really wanted to drive home the message of his superiority he'd fucc her in the ass before he slapped her and dumped her...

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      • Or just be a man about it and explain how its unacceptable. But hey I guess being a douche is always a option. But I bet at least 1 of her friends would tell her to file charges.

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        • I bet at least one would sleep with him.

          Actually most of the time females set their so called friends up to loose their bf by making them do stupid stuff. Misery loves company and single female like nothing more than to cause drama in the lives of their friends who are taken.

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          • Is that right? And you know this from all your experience being a single woman?

            I actually think you don't understand the dynamic between women when they discuss there relationships. In my experience its more about being supportive of each other and listening. Women don't typically try to solve each others problems or break up relationships unless the woman in question is being abused somehow. But whatever. I think "John" is the OP and hes here whining and trying to get sympathy which is a less than desirable trait in a man IMO.

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            • I know more about women than women know about themselves.

              Women actually don't know much about themselves which is why they are so fickle. They don't know what they want but they do know what they don't want. They need a man to give them direction in life.

              Women are deceitful, manipulative liars by nature. Knowing this might help you with your own relationships.

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  • Fuck them all the people in your story need to stop ass kissing and think for themselves.

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  • Just focus on pleasing your wife and being on good terms with the mother.

    If your wife chooses to allow her friends to run her marriage, have a very serious talk about it with her and let her know you're here to make HER happy, not her dumbass friends.

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  • Use it or lose it

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  • Is the big bad wolf gonna show up in this story?

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  • 1) John should only need to please Jane.

    2) Jane should be able to think for herself. If she is happy with John's behaviour then frankly is none of her friend's fucking business

    3) Her friends have no right to go to John and tell him what to do. Heck, JANE has no right to tell John what to do.

    4) If Jane doesn't like what he does, she should tell him that and he chooses whether or not to change for her. If he does not then either Jane accepts this compromise or breaks up with John.

    5) Jane should tell her friends, and her mother, to back off.

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  • Hahah sadly this is so true. I think people seek out approval in relationships, more than love, someone who fits into their friends/family view of who they should be with.

    So for the person trying I fill that box it's a constant balancing act of trying to please everyone else so you can ultimately please that one person but in the end it's just a waste of time. Social standing and status and others opinions have more weight on relationships than anything else.

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  • NOT ONLY THIS IS NORMAL, IT IS HOW (MOST) WOMEN GO.

    I don't understand - women are stupid to do this.

    Happened many times that girl 1 goes and advertises to all her gfs what I've been doing to her. Then girl 1's friends start to fantasize about me, get closer and if not instantaneously, eventually want to be fucked by me.

    To me, great, I'll have more sluts to fuck, but what was girl 1 thinking? I mean, rarely does a woman not mind you fucking all her slutty friends AND mother.

    Then they start to drop friendships and shit gets ugly 'tween them. And you're fucking them all. And it all started because stupid slut couldn't keep her mouth shut about being properly raped, mitreated and abused. Go figure why women do that. To me, they should do more and more of that.

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    • Yeah it does happen a lot.

      Funny thing is people act like they don't know anything about this happening. Its so common that multiple songs have even been written about it.

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